Hey guys thanks for reading, anyway i am a 22 yr old male, im pretty good looking decent build, I dont have a problem approaching girls I feel fairly comfortable talking with girls and picking up at the bar, I have had my fair share of girls approach me and try and pick me up. See I know this sounds really bad but somewhere between my opener I can always end up number closing they usually give me there number except when I do call I either dont get a pickup and thye dont call back or if I text they never text me back. Where am I going wrong?? Please anyone with some insight thanks!

i assume here wasnt enough attraction or rapport.

try to build a connection with the girl before you ask for her number.

goodluck!

Always remember that getting thier number when you ASK for it isn't is such big of an achievement. As long as she knows you're not some kind of maniac, she won't hesitate.

So next time, try number closing without asking for her number. Then you'll know she's interested.

Getting a number is nothing. I honestly give people negative points for only number closing. The reason for the numbers flaking out is likely not enough attraction and not enough comfort. Not only those two things but chances are by the following day she has forgotten all about you, the fun and playful vibe that you two had is now gone and I'm willing to bet that you just got the number and did the whole "So I'll call you sometime then." thing.

When you number close do it with intent, make sure that you have something to do as opposed to just caling her to hang out. "Give me yuour number and we'll go out to X place and do Y activity." is a hell of a lot better then "Let me get your number and we'll hang out sometime."

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