While reading this keep in mind Im in highschool (senior).
Ok I won tickets to this like Pro Exibition Tennis thing. Im not a tennis fan,
but Andy Roddick and Serena Williams will be there so it should be fun.
Anyways I asked this girl Ive been talking to and she said she would try
but today (one day before) she was like I cant sorry.

So Im going to ask this other girl I know, BUT.. she has a B/F
Now I know what you are thinking you shouldnt try to steal
away someone from a B/F, but heres the thing hes a huge D-Bag.
They had been dating a year then last year he just cheating on
her with a girl that had just moved to our school. He eventually
someone how talked his way back in and they are now going back out.
Plus she has already told me after this year they are gonna break up
because they are probaly going to be going to different schools.

Ok theres theres the back story Now for my question.
Even though she says this I need to ask her in a way where it
wont seem like a "date" because she will think I want her to cheat on
her B/F. So I need to ask her in a way that wont put her guard up
or she will say no.

So heres what Im thinking
Sometime today (the tennis things is tomorrow) Ill text/call her and say
Me: Hey do you watch tennis?
HB: Yes/No blah blah
Me: Well I won tickets to that tennis thing sunday, and the person I was
supposed to go with cancelled last minute
(If she said she dosent) If say I dont really know much about tennis either,
but Andy Roddick and Serena Williams will be there so it should be fun
(And if she said yes) Ill say I knew you liked tennis and thought you might wanna come

What do you think anyways I can change and improve this to get good results.
I know if I can get her to come itll be fun and I can game her the whole time were sitting there.

Any opinions Appreciated THANKS

Forget the boyfriend and forget pickup here. Just ask if she wants to go hang out and have fun. Then have fun. If you have fun together there will be chemistry. You don't need to make any moves. Just spend time together and see what's there.

I've hooked up with a LOT of girls who started as friends, and it always comes back to just beoing able to relax and have fun with each other. Most puas are wicked uncomfortable around girls, so all they have are moves. Don't be that weird guy. Be cooler.

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Yeah, don't over think this. Just call her up and say, "Hey, I won these tickets to a pro tennis match and I thought it might be kinda cool to go check it out. You should come with me, it'll be fun!" No lines, no trying to twist words or anything, just be straight up. It has always worked better for me that way.

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Alright thanks guy for the advise

I agree with this. THis seems to be the best approach to the situation.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

HAHA Major backfire!!

So I text her... BUT she happens to be with her boyfriend.
Hes all trying to threaten me and stuff saying dont talk to
my girlfriend!! Haha

So Im just laughing and I think to myself
*Self how can I make him look bad* So I think jealous BF

ME:"Im not asking her on a date I just asked if she wanted to
go with me to the tennis thing I won. Why do you not trust your girlfriend?"
HIM: "I trust her but not you"
ME: "Have I ever tried/encouraged her to cheat on you? No, so I
dont know why you wouldnt tust me. Its all cool though man. I
think you should learn to trust your girl though"

Not exactly what I said but it was similar.. He didnt really text back
after that.

New i need some new help. I know the girl is gonna
be pissed with me monday because her bf prbly
bitched her out about this. Now I need help with
recover..

Im thinking about texting her sunday night like
around 10 so she will be about to go to sleep
(so i make sure her bfs not there haha)
and saying something like "wtf was his problem"
But what im think is she is gonna be mad and not
answer or shes gonna be like Im not allowed/cant talk to you

So I need your help in both the situations thanks.

I wouldn't be so aggressive about it. I'd just shrug it off and next time you run into her (I'm assuming that you see her at school or something) just be friendly. She'll let you know how she's feeling, either by saying it plainly, or you can figure it out by how she's acting. I wouldn't act like it's a big deal because that will make it one.

Hopefully you found someone else to go with you, or you just went yourself and you can mention how cool it was and express your disappointment that she wasn't able to enjoy it as well. That's all. Nothing about it aside from the fact that you wanted her to have a good time. Once you start bringing him into this, then it's obvious that you have alterior motives and it wasn't just a matter of you wanting her to have a good time, you're pissed off that he got in the way of your plans. If it didn't mean anything, then you won't be phased by it, so don't be.

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