Alright guys... I apologize for letting my thread get so far behind, but the good news is I'll be catching it up today starting with the questions asked in November... and from now on I intend to check and respond weekly at a minimum, hopefully when I have time more often then that.

Well that depends... if you wanted the girl you were origionally talking to... then you should have kept her engaged in the convo... if you wanted the second girl when you needed to build more attrction probably and be willing to close her in front of her boyfriend.

Here is a write up I posted about a year ago... it goes over the basics of repatterning... this particular article was written directed at confidence but these same steps can be used to repattern virtually anything.

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The best way I've found to deal with the boyfriend issue is simply ignore it... pretend she doesnt have one... just dont ever bring it up... if she brings it upe, change the subject and ingore it... If that doesnt work then you'll need to use some more advanced BF destroyers... but most of the time just ignoring that fact works fine

As for what to do it doesnt really matter that much... whats important is the vibe you give off when asking... the owrding you use can help to set the feel of it. Example of good wording may be "Hey, I'm going to do X, you should come."... It's just like dancing... take the lead and she'll follow

She wants you... most definatly. You just need to escelate normally, and after you have had sex and she feels much more connected to you, then you spend more time together etc... and build a relationship out of it.

Hey man... if your brand new, I suggest reading "The Venusian Arts Handbook" I think it goes over alot of concepts of the dating/mating dynamic that will help you greatly. Also keep reading this forum. Work on your confidence, your apperance and your conversational skills and you'll be doing well in no time.

Pretty much anything can work on any girl... so long as it's delivered properly... namely with congruency and proper calibration. I think more so then trying to learn a bunch of style to use on different women... study the styles that are out there in order to find your own personal style.

LIES!!!!!

Question: is it better to take the advice of a community of members who have experienced a specific situation, or a book written by a master of the arts?

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If they truly are a master... then most definately the master... A community can often help many react a slightly higher level of medicority... however if your looking to react excellence, you will need to break into smaller more elite groups... and leave the "stupified masses" to be average.

In short... communities raise the art/science from the bottom... masters extend the top

alright so I've got this issue, and I've posted on the form but I want a mpua's opinion,

So theres this girl I perviously gamed, I layed down some of the best game in my life and the best reaction I got was "I actually have a bf, but your so sweet".

So that was a few months ago, and continuely notice the girl, becouse shes the most beautifull women I've ever seen in my life, she looks like a 1940s pin up model.

She works in the bank inside the grocery store that I work at, I'm not allowed to go in the bank while I'm working. She says hi to me when shes out of the bank, but thats not very offten.

So its 4 in the morning and I'm in a book store just minding my own bussiness not paying attention to anybody, I look like shit, I had not slept all night, she.....drum roll....
she aproaches me, I mean litrally stops dead in her tracks and approaches me, I was standing in the graphic novel section and she tells me shes disapointed with their selection and we start talking about grapic novels...and its ok becouse she was like really into them.
I did not try to nClose with her, becouse I remeber that she told me she had bf, but durring that experince she did not mention that she still had one.
Now I'm wanting to game her again but were at work, I've got my job to do, shes got her job to do, she might come out to do some shopping, we've made small talk since, but I want to make my move, so to speak soon.

I was tipsy last night and bumped into a girl who I had a crush on in high school. We go to the same college.

We talked for awhile, but I dont remember what we really talked about. I want to facebook her something cocky and funny, any advice on what I could say.

thanks

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Hey,

well, let me explain the situation first. I have a hot girl I am quite into at the moment and we are currently doing a dancing course together so a lot of kino there and stuff. However when the course stops and we drive home together she totally blocks me out and completly ignores me whereas beforehand whilst dancing she was giving me IOI's all over. So my questions are: Why does her behaviour change that drastically and what should I do about it? Any advice is very welcome. If you need more information I would be very glad to send you a PM.

Thanks in advance for your help!!!

Your,
rAFC

hey doc i'm interested to know what you think of my situation...

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Hey man i really need some help on my thread.. help me out

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Send the poke first... women love to be poked... especially from behind