Hey all. I just joined the site and was about to post up an intro of myself and everything, but I just had to get this out there first. The other day I was out with a few friends getting a few drinks at a local grill/bar. This place is know to have some really cute waitresses on staff there. I was interested in the one who was waiting on us at the time. I didn't really make an approach or anything on her, yet she was give us a few looks or whatever. So I just decided to do the really cute old school "leave the number in the receipt jacket" you know not really thinking it would work out. Low and behold I get a txt from her the other night saying how she got my number and who she was. I suggested getting some coffee at a little cafe place near where we lived since she wasn't far from me. She picked me up, it was around 1am, and we went to the place and chit-chatted for the better part of two hours. Now I'm new at the whole game thing. I'm not gonna lie about that. I mean I have experience, so do we all, but I'm not good at making things happen. She took me back to my apartment and I tried to get her to come up once at the cafe and once in the car. Turns out she had a final at 11 and wanted to get home since it was 3am. She told me she had fun and definitely wanted to get together again. I think shes really like my type of girl. I really like where she's coming from and I wanna make more of the situation. I'm not sure if unbeknown est to me I put myself in the friend zone unconsciously or whatever. I just wanted to know if you guys had any advice on the situation. Any kinda input would be much appreciated. Thanks

Everything so far seems to be good, simply let it all flow naturally and it should work out as it seems you have a general grasp on things. remember to kino escalate and don't be too needy of her.

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Your momma's so fat when she walked past the TV she was going to the kitchen to get cake 'cos she's fat.

I like it! well played mate! are you worried that she was lying about the final the next day as a way of getting out of shagging you?? if so, dont be so negative. you hooked up whule she was working which is always risky for her..... i can hear her squelching from here!!!!!! ha ha ha ha!! someone fetch a mop!!!!

well what did you guys talk about, distance, and chemistry would tell you if you have a chance of being it the friend zone. but im willing to bet anyone wanting to meet up with you at 1am for "coffee" none the less...isnt looking for a friend.

2 kinds of mistakes can be made.

1. Go too fast.
2. Go too slow.

Going too slow, in my opinion, is MUCH worse than going to fast. When you think it's there, get your kiss. When you think it's there, you gotta get in that vagina. Afterwards, you can sort everything out.

Well Arrogant, the problem with me in these situations is that I have little experience at best making things happen. I always seem to keep the conversation very general and have trouble recognizing IOIs and being flirtatious. I forgot about the whole kino thing as well. That's what I'm trying to work on right now. In this case I felt we had a lot in common and I really liked her as a person. I do agree with you about the whole coffee at 1am and her wanting more thing. I think maybe I had gotten a little too excited about the whole scenario since this was the first time this has ever happened to me. I'm still working on the second date so I'll keep you guys posted on how things turn out.