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PostPosted: Fri Dec 12, 2008 5:05 am 
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You know it never frickin fails. I'm always attracted to the "hard to get to chicks." At least some of you out there have to know what I mean by "hard to get to". I mean the HB's that you either see and never get to speak directly to or the ones where your window of time is so small you have no chance to get any thing going.

Example 1: I'm in a bank getting a visa gift card from this HB that I've wanted to at least # close for a couple weeks and the window of oppurtunity is there and gone in seconds. I've crafted a few clever "games" and what not but are inconsistent due to the lack of comfort in order to use them effectively.

Example 2: Hot automobile insurance chick that I never get to speak to simply because her job doesn't involve dealing with customers directly. This one I know is interested in me simply because she always makes a point of saying "good-bye" when I leave and on at least two separate occasions has watched me leave "that I know of." I think it would be awkward for her for me to approach and start running any kind of game. Interest or no interest.

Now I've been doing the PUA thing since April and just in the past few months have run into these situations. My question is what do I do?


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 13, 2008 4:45 pm 
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i hear you especially on bank girl. The problem is that you dont have enough time to do anything so i think that the best bet would to run your game... but at hyperspeed. You neeed to get to the point, quick and st least take a stab. Maybe just directly go up and say 'oh yea and i need your phone number too cause it seems like i never really get a chance to talk to you' Maybe kinda AFC in a way but thats what the situation calls for.
This is just one take that i thought of and thought id throw it out there cause ive been in simalar situations. If this is totaly wrong someone let me know how they approach it.


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 13, 2008 5:30 pm 
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We always want what we can't have. I tend to be more attracted to the chicks that I have less success with.
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the best bet would to run your game... but at hyperspeed.
I disagree with this - not running solid game is more risk, but moreover, once you # close the chick is exponentially more likely to flake on you.

The reason why we have so much trouble with these girls in my opinion, is that we care too much...if it were some other chick, you would take a stab in that 3-5 seconds you had and your care-free attitude would probably enable you to win her over.

But with chicks you care about, you're too scared about messing up (because you know you only got one shot), and so convince yourself that a better opportunity will arise so that you can chicken out, but a better opportunity rarely does.

Best thing to do is just to go for it. With bank girl, you're right, I don't think you can do such 'games' yet (depending on what they are) due to lack of comfort. The way I approach these work girls, who are physically/logistically hard to game due to their work, is simply to be a "regular customer". Go there often and be C&F. If you're using this approach YOU HAVE TO go C&F, or otherwise SOMETHING that prevents you from being friendzoned, because that is the risk with this strategy.

AS SOON AS she is familiar with you, or you have built enough attraction, then you can game her for a bit longer at her work in order to get the # close.

You could probably #close her earlier than this, but she might flake.

I currently have a few work girls on the go. Some at restaurants, even one at Argos, lolll. Over-the-counter-sarging. Haha.


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PostPosted: Sat Dec 13, 2008 7:27 pm 
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We always want what we can't have. I tend to be more attracted to the chicks that I have less success with.
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the best bet would to run your game... but at hyperspeed.
I disagree with this - not running solid game is more risk, but moreover, once you # close the chick is exponentially more likely to flake on you.

The reason why we have so much trouble with these girls in my opinion, is that we care too much...if it were some other chick, you would take a stab in that 3-5 seconds you had and your care-free attitude would probably enable you to win her over.

But with chicks you care about, you're too scared about messing up (because you know you only got one shot), and so convince yourself that a better opportunity will arise so that you can chicken out, but a better opportunity rarely does.

Best thing to do is just to go for it. With bank girl, you're right, I don't think you can do such 'games' yet (depending on what they are) due to lack of comfort. The way I approach these work girls, who are physically/logistically hard to game due to their work, is simply to be a "regular customer". Go there often and be C&F. If you're using this approach YOU HAVE TO go C&F, or otherwise SOMETHING that prevents you from being friendzoned, because that is the risk with this strategy.

AS SOON AS she is familiar with you, or you have built enough attraction, then you can game her for a bit longer at her work in order to get the # close.

You could probably #close her earlier than this, but she might flake.

I currently have a few work girls on the go. Some at restaurants, even one at Argos, lolll. Over-the-counter-sarging. Haha.
Great advice man, will definately take that on board. Are you from the UK btw? If so which City?

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ha over the counter sarging thats a good one


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