We always want what we can't have. I tend to be more attracted to the chicks that I have less success with.
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the best bet would to run your game... but at hyperspeed.
I disagree with this - not running solid game is more risk, but moreover, once you # close the chick is exponentially more likely to flake on you.
The reason why we have so much trouble with these girls in my opinion, is that we care too much...if it were some other chick, you would take a stab in that 3-5 seconds you had and your care-free attitude would probably enable you to win her over.
But with chicks you care about, you're too scared about messing up (because you know you only got one shot), and so convince yourself that a better opportunity will arise so that you can chicken out, but a better opportunity rarely does.
Best thing to do is just to go for it. With bank girl, you're right, I don't think you can do such 'games' yet (depending on what they are) due to lack of comfort. The way I approach these work girls, who are physically/logistically hard to game due to their work, is simply to be a "regular customer". Go there often and be C&F. If you're using this approach YOU HAVE TO go C&F, or otherwise SOMETHING that prevents you from being friendzoned, because that is the risk with this strategy.
AS SOON AS she is familiar with you, or you have built enough attraction, then you can game her for a bit longer at her work in order to get the # close.
You could probably #close her earlier than this, but she might flake.
I currently have a few work girls on the go. Some at restaurants, even one at Argos, lolll. Over-the-counter-sarging. Haha.