When opening the set should you try to stand next to the target with your back towads her. Or is it allright to be across from her. Also I was able to establish some kino and the hand compliance test worked but I wasnt really getting any IOIs. Could she just not be interested.

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If you're asking whether you're making any mistakes that will leave you looking awkward, then personal space is the big issue.

I believe your real question, however, is where you should stand in correlation to her:



1) standing to the left of her (if you are right handed) should make you feel as if you are in more control and more confident. Whereas the other side should do the opposite for you.

Think of driving in a car. You would feel more confident in the drivers seat (to the left) than in the passenger seat (to the right) for more reasons then the simple fact that you are driving.

2) another important thing to remember is that if you are very confident and unfaltering (as is not always the case for the rest of us) then when you maintain eye contact and stand/sit directly in front of her then her involvement with you is more likely to remain constant.

i i usaly find if you keep a little distance from her (not to far) and talk to her and if shes intrested she will move in to close the gap and this will let her get close comfitably ...hope it helps!

Be on the outside of the obstacle


if the target is on the right and the ob is on the left


get on the ob's left side

so for the start you should be closer to the obstacle than the target

you wanna see if the target will lean in or come closer IOI's

and usually the target isn't use to the OB getting the attention so she should

at little jealous