| So I didnt know where the best section was to post this question, as it is odd. First of all, lets talk about the girl. I barely know her. Today at work I get to my desk and there is a sticky note from her asking me to come to her christmas party saturday. Apparently she has been keeping her eye on me, and talking to a few girls in my department while I knew about none of it. Well, i get to talking to her today during lunch, and she mentions that I should come over tomorrow night and watch a movie.
So here is the situation. I could definately sleep with this girl tomorrow night. The looks she was giving me said it all. But here's my problem.... Rewind to monday....
Monday I get a call from a girl i slept with about a month ago. Being the idiot that I am, I trusted her when she said she just got tested for everything, and she was clean, plus she was on birth control, so there was no condom. (Very very stupid I realize this!) Anyway, she calls me and tells me she has Chlamydia and that I need to go get treated. Damit!!
(First of all let me give you some background on Chlamydia. It is highly contagious, but 100% curable every time with antibiotics.)
So I took 5 pills yesterday at the health department. The nurse says, take these pills, go a week without sex and alcohol, and you are cured. No follow up appointment necessary.
Basically my question is, what is my excuse going to be if things start getting heavy? (which they probably will) I mean, if the makeout session starts, and she reaches for king dingaling, I obviously have to stop her. I better have a damn good excuse at this point. So what is my play here?
Here are the choices I can see... (and I'm not including having sex with her as a choice, even with a condom.)
1) Blow her off until next wednesday. Don't like this option too much because I have been invited, and accepted the invitation to her x-mas party, which she will probably want it then too. If I blow her off for almost a week I might not get much of another chance.
2) Mention the chlamydia thing before anything starts to happen at all. I really dont like this one either. First of all the Chlamydia thing sends a bad message on its own, plus I will be incenuating that I KNOW she wants to sleep with me.
3) Let it get to making out, and stop her when she wants to take it further. At this point I could either have an excuse ready, or have a spinoff of the truth. (The spinoff would be, a girl I dated a few months ago called me and said she got tested for chlamydia. she slept with one guy since then, so she might have gotten it from him. Reguardless they went ahead and gave me the meds without testing me because they cost just as much as the test and they are harmless if i dont have it)
4) My final choice would be to not even make a move on her at all. And seeing her twice without making ANY kind of move will either piss her off or put me in the friends zone.
I really dont like any of my options here. The ideal situation would be to avoid sex in a way that I am kind of teasing her, so she will want it bad when i am clear to go. Any advice would be GREAT here.
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