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| jack187 | PostPosted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 7:38 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Dec 01, 2008 3:35 am Posts: 9 Location: Florida | | Background story:
So I have been trying to get this girl for about a month now.
She been dating her boyfriend for about 2 months and seemed to really like him. I met the guy and knew right way that he was not meant to be with her. So of course, guilt free now that I know he doesn’t deserve her, I start to use PUA tactics to gain her attention.( Boy friend destroyer, keno touch escalation, dressing with style, texting games, and a lot more.) I used all these tactics over the span of a month. Some with success, some failing miserably.
Now lets not be mistaken I am still fighting the AFC in me every day, so when this stuff started working I was shocked.
Now to recent events:
Last week the girl called me out on having a crush on her. I guess all my gaming finally hit her in the face. The AFC in me wanted to deny it with a "what, your crazy" and walk away with my face red. But I fought the urge and said, “Of course I have a crush on you, but I blame you for seducing me." I said it like it was a matter of fact and not a big deal at all. She smile and turned a bit red. She says I can't have a crush on her; it’s not fair to her boyfriend. I told her all she has to do is tell me to stop and I will. With a huge smile and not making eye contact she says "stop". Normally the AFC in me would either argue with her for choosing her boyfriend over me or just walk away in shame. But I just smiled and said “as you wish". (in my head I’m thinking its time for a freeze out )Then for the next week I stopped the flirting, no keno touching, just a few easy conversations about life.
So the other day I was talking with her and she mentioned her boyfriend but call him, "whats his face". I let that go as an honest mistake. Filed it in my head as being odd. Because when you like someone you usually call them by their name or title(boyfriend). Once again during a conversation today she said that "whats his face " is coming over later tonight.
Now I think this is a great sign that the boyfriend is just about out the door. Should I step up now or wait a little longer? Any ideas.
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| Stygian | PostPosted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 8:05 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Mon Sep 08, 2008 10:02 pm Posts: 181 | | Depends really, does she do this just around you or around everyone? Try flirting with her a little, see how she reacts. I wouldn't take it as any sort of indicator at this point.
I was with a girl I met at a gay pride parade (yeah I know) for a few weeks and the entire time I was calling her another girl's name, I could no for the life of me remember her real name so I ended up just calling her tinkerbell. Point is: I would just put it down to human error as opposed to disinterest in her boyfriend at this point. _________________ Your momma's so fat when she walked past the TV she was going to the kitchen to get cake 'cos she's fat.
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