Actually, it is slightly harder than anything else inside, a bit like a hard pallet.
The spiderman technique is a good explanation. 2 fingers in to just past the knuckles, then pull back up towards the pelvis and you got it.

I heard the funniest thing at work today. The guys I work with a pretty simple blokes, and were talking about someone they knew. This one guy said his partner used to get him to wear a studded condom, but cut the end off, because apparently otherwise she'd be missing out on the best part. Oh how I laughed.

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Thanks for the tips guys!!

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so the g spot is on the front wall, like as in toward her stomach and opposite of her backside?

Yes

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It is on the wall closest to the front of her body. Don't go digging away towards the back because it only about two inches in.

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Yeah, read my last post. If you go in to just past the knuckles you'll hit it. Haha, and also don't go 'digging' at all, as it's very sensitive.

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tell her 'we should do it from behind it can get your g-spot'

if u do it from behind the bottom of you cock is rubbing her g-spot (push her down a bit of lifting yourself up will accomplish this )

If u gonna use your hand, use fingers 3 and 4, the longest finger and the "ring finger" not the longest and the "point finger" (sry for not knowing a better way to name them ). The reason being, well u figure it out, try to do the spiderman motion and slap the lower part of your palm in the two differrent ways. Notice that the 3rd and 4th finger are the strongest ?

Anyways when you do it, you cant start "digging" cause your point and pinkie finger will make your hand stop. When you got it like this try and keep it air-thight so that you dont bring your hand in and out, you should instead be moving the fingers up and towards you (spiderman motion). make sure you just use the 2 fingers not the whole hand (we gonna save that part for later). start out slow and try and pick up speed as longer u go, will be a bit painful if you dont get it right the first couple of tries, but then just lower the tempo again and rest a bit while going slow

To make her cum externally, she cant be tenced at her lower stomach, this makes it almost an almost impossible task, wont go into detail here, just know that this is a fact for now. So make her relax and enjoy the moment totally , if shes not already, by gently rubbing that part of the belly (you will feel when the tence mucles start relaxing)

Now for the killer. When you start picking up speed a bit, assuming that you are doing it right, you will hear this sound, like water is moving around inside, then you move as fast as you can, tence your hand, and use the whole hand to make sort of the same move. Since your moving the fastest you can, your hand will move a bit sideways aswell. from the splashing sound to her screamin wet orgasm should be 10 sec aprox. If you get a hard time here, try to shock her system by sucking her clit just before you tence your hand. (Dont take your hand out while doing so, or even stop moving it!!)

This shit is fool proof. Read somewhere in a book that a study showed that only 20% of the girls cam cum externally.. Utter BS if u ask me ,, it never fails if you only know what you are doing.

Edit: Fun fact

There's this village in Southern part of Afrika where the ladies, in order to be allowed to be married, needs to cum like this. But not only cum, she needs to cum on a freakin plank thats 70 cm away! Every lady thats married helps out, and guess what,

They ALL make it!

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The best thing for not blowing is this:

Don't think about what your doing and look around the room, and INVENT SMALL SONGS AND STORIES! For example, you're going at it doggy, so you have a nice view of the room. Oh, there's a pack of condoms on the bedside table! Condoms condoms condoms, watch them dance, dance around, sitting on Harry Potter's face on the book. Oh no Harry, that's not nice, not nice at all...

Sounds stupid? Try it, and you'll find you'll stay for as long as you want. It actually is an effort to get your mind back on task after she's done so you can finish yourself.

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Don't worry about blowing too soon, as long as it's reasonable.

The clock starts when the foreplay starts.

HAHAHA Difference!!!
I love you man.

This post makes me reminisce about the times during sex and foreplay that I have though, 'Hmmm that girl that was looking at me at that bar was nice. Is that my phone? no? Probably just dad asking if i will be round for dinner tomorrow night. Wait what? Oh shes moaning again. Must be doing something right. Shes not much good though. Ill have to call that Jen bird in the morning...'

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Hahahahahahahaha... If anything, just hold on for dear life. Like you are riding a bull or something. I like the song idea... hilarious, but distracting yourself might work.

In regards to the g-spot like the prior conversation... I have a funny story, which makes me proud and embarrassed concurrently.

Ok, so I was frequently messing around with one girl, probably about a 7-7.5. Mostly just a drunken hook-up. Anyway, for some reason, I could find her g-spot and make her orgasm very easily... she would be screaming in her dorm room to the point people would knock to see if she was ok.

Anyway, after a few hook-ups, I had this girls combination down. I could get her to orgasm and cum within minutes. She was a squirter too, which is gross, but invokes some pride whenever it happened.

Alright, my story- one day I was giving her some rubbing magic and then started fingering her. I gave her 4 orgasms within 10 minutes with just fingering. (I am taking my bows right now- Thank you, Thank you). Anyway, I left and she called me saying she had a headache post-orgasm. I said take an advil and hung up... I was sleeping and she woke me, so I was rude.

Ok, the next day I learned from a friend that she is a hypochondriac... Wonderful... So she apparently went to the ER at the hospital because of the headache and told the doctors she thought she had a brain hemmorage because I gave her 4 orgasms in such a short time. Then she called her mom and told her what I did. Then she called her aunt and told her what I did. Then she called her 13-year old little sister and told her what I did. Then she told her whole dorm what I did.

So. I learned she was psycho. For the next week, I had girls curious about giving 4 orgasms so close together... which is nice... but all the guys in the dorm decided that I should be called "Magic Fingers" or "Killer fingers" for the next week.

I got as far away from this girl as I could. But, I did have new girls interested in me due to the story... no matter how embarrassed I was.


Now I know that story had close to nothing to do with this forum, but I think it is hilarious and wanted to share. Enjoy.

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this stuff works awesome and will drive her nuts


here is the link to buy
http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod. ... ram=df5628

I have used this stuff for a while and is by far the best lubricant on the market. its not sticky, can be used for massages, warms on contact, safe on latex, and best of all will drive her nuts. Even if you suck in the sack I think this will help you not suck as bad. I keep it right near the bed and after having sex for a little I will break it out that way the girl can feel the difference. Hope this helps you guy that are having trouble.

Not blowing it too soon is largely a mental discipline. You've got to go in with confidence and without fear. Of course, be sure you don't get over confident because then you will get reckless. You've got to use common sense. You've got to force yourself to stop pumping at the right times. You can get some good practice from masturbation in this regard, although sex with condoms is a bit different. For instance, what happens to me is sometimes I'm having sex and stop because I'm about to cum, but because my dick throbs in the condom, that insulated throbbing is actually enough to make me cum. Without condoms that wouldn't be an issue. But it can be addressed by just making sure you stop earlier than you would when wanking. Coinciding with stopping in time however, is not to stop or slow down too frequently. Or, in other words, be too cautious. Because if you are it can make the experience super sensitive and you may cum even if your going at it with the speed of a sloth. Somtimes, I've stuck it in very slow and pretty much cummed straight away. So, balance is the key.

More importantly than keeping these things in mind though, is to keep a relaxed mind. If your too busy worrying about cumming too early you will probably cum too early. Just relax and enjoy the experience for what it is in the moment, and try not to have any expectations. After all, there is more to life than sex. And did you know that sometimes people can last forever in bed, but they hardly feel any stimulation? This has happened to me, and sometimes I actually wanted to cum and get it over and done, believe it or not. And instead of sex becoming a fun thing it becomes a chore. Sometimes I even went to the point of stopping the sex and saying 'this is boring', and leaving.

So, what it's all about in the end is mastering the balancing act and having confidence. Really, just have fun. Sex isn't the game, it's the prize. No need to work too hard at it. If you have fun, no doubt your partner will have fun too.