Sup guys, My brothers wifes brother is a gay guy who said he can and would like to go to a few clubs with me. He is REALLY gay like "The Bird Cage" gay. Can I have him wing for me and how would he best be used? Should I use him to open for me? Do you think a gay guy is better than a female wing?

Yes you can have him open for you and do very well with all lady sets. If he approaches a mixed set then it'd be tougher for him in many ways than it would a female wing. I thing a female wing kind of has the golden pass in my book. Not saying all interactions are easier but....

Have him open for you and then join the set. He'll provide the interaction.

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A few years ago I lived with a gay guy who is to this day one of my best friends, and it was awesome. He was constantly making friends with new, HOT girls and bringing them home to party. After an evening kicking it with us (in situations where I was usually the only straight guy around, and always the one with the tightest game) listening to him and all his gay friends talk about how hot I was all night, basically all I had to do was not be a total freak and the girl was mine.

I don't really have an interest in that kind of party lifestyle anymore but I can't deny it was the easiest picking up girls has been since high school. In my opinion there is no more productive thing a straight man can do for his sex life than add a gay man to his social circle.

I love having gay guys around when I'm interacting with women. I always end up getting tons of compliments and the guys talk to the girls about how hot I am and how much they wish I were gay because I'm such a catch. Just like 870 said, this just makes it easier for me because I just have to be a decent human being and the girls are all over me.

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Great wing man, but make sure you let him in on it so it's more effective!