Stealth7, this one's for you:

A text alert woke me up this morning at 9:30am. (I fell asleep at 5am)

Text(girl): Maybe we can meet up again

The night before, a buddy of mine and I went to a popular hip-hop club where I # closed 5 girls. I didn’t feel that great about those numbers because firstly, I wasn’t really able to build up too much rapport. Secondly, I wasn’t very attracted to most of them. But the one who texted was the cutest one of the bunch. Maybe that’s why I kissed her. Anyhow, I was tired as hell so I shut my eyes for another hour and then replied.

Text(me): ______ (I always give every girl a pet name) Meeting up again sounds like a great idea but maybe ur too much of a party animal for me. I liked it when U kissed me but I was really, really surprised.

So now I’m waiting for some sort of generic reply from her like, “You’re crazy. I didn’t kiss you at all. You kissed me.” Or “I was just sitting there when you made me dance and made me do tequila shots. You’re the party animal.” Etc . . .

Now just read her text carefully and just feel me here. Instead of a generic reply to a generic comment, this is what she wrote: (And I left it exactly as she wrote it)

Text(girl): look ur a poor and ugly animal,like a shit, and you kissed me , I am worried about my healthy now,maybe you got HIV,there are a lot of foreigners bring HIV come to ____. You need pay for my healthy fee, I know you will escape me ,cus you are nothing and have no humanity

I was in total utter shock. But then I read it again and thought it was funny so I had to laugh out loud. Then I thought about it and I was back to total shock. . . but then I laughed out loud. I went back and forth like this for a few minutes but I knew I had to text her back. I had to text her back quickly because this sweet girl who was shy, held hands with me and smiled brightly when we exchanged numbers the night before somehow became a total crazy nut between 9:30am and around 11am. This is the girl who texted me the first thing in the morning . . . after leaving the club at 4am!

So I read my reply to her initial text and it was clear. She must have somehow concluded that I didn’t want to see her again. So this is how I reply:

Text(me): _____ Ur a really nice girl so if ur really that angry, I must have done something wrong. ‘Party Animal’ = Very Fun Person (So I was complimenting you). I wrote ‘u kissed me’, because I never do that so I was embarrassed about it this morning . . .although . . . I really did like it . . . and I’d luv to see u again . . .

It’s 2:28pm now and she hasn’t texted me back yet. Do you know why? She hasn’t texted me back because she’s embarrassed to death. Now . . . how much do you want to bet that if I text her tonight and go, “Hey, I’m headed to _____. Meet me there?”, that she’ll be waiting there for me?

This whole thing is a vicious cycle but unlike the "chicken or the egg", this one has to obviously begin with self love and self confidence. This is what gives you success right? I mean, I'm running the same show for many other girls and they love it so if something blows up, well, you gotta think it's just a minor anomaly. Treating these little problems this way gives you more success . . . so naturally, you're more confident . . . and so you treat little problems exactly as they are . . . little problems. . . which leads to more success . . .

Think about this cycle . . .

language barriers + negs = playing with fire. Verbal C&F is harder when language is an issue.

Even someone who speaks/writes perfect english may not be aware of colloquialisms/slang that may sound horrible when taken literally (like in your case).

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i would have responded with a joking sort of text. something like..

"haha wow thats CRAZY where did you come up with this stuff? meet me at x place y time. i gotta get you to explain this!"

IMO it was some sorta shit test. see if you would freak and ditch your ego. play it off like u couldnt give 2 shits of those things she said to you. remember, the idea is to play the alpha male. if some half decent looking girl came up to a true alpha male and said you are ugly fuck off. what is he gonna do? laugh at her. thats what.

also, what if some asshole guy friend who has the hots for her got a hold on her phone and sent that because all she did was talk about you all night? you never know... it was so outlandish that it was either a joke, or something weird. play it off cool, and wonders will happen.

Stealth7, where are you?

Anyhow . . . I just thought this situation was funny because I think it applies to stealth7's latest posts. Anyhow . . . this wasn't a shit test or any other test. She was excited to see me again but she thought that I didn't want to see her. She just got pissed off . . . Simple and straight forward. . .

Already set up a date with her because I'd like a piece of yummy but there's no way I'm dating a girl with a mouth like that!

good post man.
and well played.

i especially like how you turned her display of anger into a huge DLV, will definately keep this in mind.

EXACTLY

Do not use C&F in text messages or in online game unless the sentence is clear enough. In text messages you don't have your tone voice and body language to support the meaning of what you are saying so the message is the pure sentence.

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So I amend the above equation as so: nonverbal communication techniques - physical proximity + extraneous technology = DISASTER

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Hey

Great post! Thanks for the dedication. I see what you mean - sometimes when a girl likes you or me - they sometimes think that I don't like them or will not like them. It makes sense - I don't know why thought but it does. I remember talking to this one friend of mine that liked me and she told me that she would ask me out but she's scared that I'll say no.

Maybe that's my problem - girls do like me but don't know how to talk to me or are nervous because they think I'll reject them.

Great post! Thanks!

-Paul aka Stealth

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It's just statistics. . . .

I've been going this route with texts for a while now and the worst I've gotten until the "shit animal remark" was something like, "???" or "You're crazy. . . " And when I got those responses, both were from second "contact" after initially # closing.

I wouldn't recommend going this route with somebody you just met or somebody who you haven't developed a high level or rapport with . . . but, I do this because . . .

Sometimes, it's just impossible to meet a girl for a while. One weekend for some wedding or whatever . . . 3 or 4 dates with your regular girls, 1 or 2 nights of going out with your buddies, and bam, that great number that you obtained goes a month without any real life follow up. So I keep firing away a few zingers once or twice a week. This seems to keep them in the "same mood" when we finally meet.

Plus, as shown here, recovery(if needed) from something like this isn't too difficult . . .

Alright . . . maybe you're not such a big fan of the Packers but Brett Favre said something I heard MANY great athletes say after he won his first super bowl. He said, "I respect the patriots but I ALREADY knew that we won the super bowl before the game even began . . . "

Now think about this. This is SUPER CONFIDENCE. What happens if he "thinks" this way and they lose the game? Nothing . . . they lose the game. But the important thing is what happens DURING the game when you have a mindset like this?

There is no fear. There is no worry. . . and without these things, there can be no anger. History has ALREADY been made in his mind and it ends with him standing on the podium so all he's trying to do is create a positive path for that positive outcome.

With "our" game, it's not "sometimes" when a girl likes us. It's EVERY TIME a girl likes us. The end is US ramming them with their legs spread up in the air forming a V for Victory with them screaming, "I love you! I love you! I love you!" ----- You ALREADY know this . . . and until that moment comes, you gotta just smile at every little wrinkle and keep pushing on with what you KNOW WORKS.

I gotta admit, when I got that text, there was a little part of me that went, "Holy shit, this girl really really really hates me! . . . Naaaaaah! ha ha ha ha ha ha!!! "

The most recent text went like:

"Dinner Plans tonite?"

"No. What do you want to do?" (She waited 2 hours to respond)

"Uh oh . . . a friend just called 30 minutes ago and asked. I thought you were busy so I told her that I'd have dinner with her." (This is true)

later on I text her, "I still want to see you . . . how about tomorrow?"

"OK!"

Ha ha ha ha ha . . . I guess she likes eating with shitty animals. She better like making love to one . . . You gotta love it . . .

That's cool man! I'm not the guy a woman will like. For example, I'm too dark to even be liked. When I was browsing through images of Britney spears to alter and make it look funny. I laughed out loud when I was desinging the image of her being eaten by a shark. LOL! ALso, my ex girlfriend when I was altering her image to make it look like she was eating her nephews head off - I laughed out loud.

When I was young - I use to draw. Guess what I drew? Either women in sexy lingerie or women with half of their face and half of a skull.

I have a sesne of humor women wouldn't get or get repelled by it. Also, I can't connect with them emotionally because I don't know if I feel emotions. For example, when having sex with a girl - I don't feel anything. When a girl tells me she loves me - I don't feel anything. When a girl tells me that she hates me - I feel pissed. The only two registered emotions are depressed and anger. It might be a self-defense mechanism - like when my friend died in my apartment complex and the staff told us about it - everyone was crying. A girl besides me was like, "Oh, my God! Why Tony, Why?" I looked at her and was thinking of why would she be histerical. I konw what death causes - it causes people to grief. But I don't see hte point of going bonkers because someone dies. They die, okay - they died - they're not suffering anymore, they're free.

However, my friend named Gary aways has this panic attacks which pisses me off and I always get him out of my apartment because I'm not gonna be the one responsible if he dies. I don't want knowing some guy died in my apartment and I fucked up by not saving him. So, I kick him out and if he dies i- it's not my fault. Fucked up huh?

The fucked up part is that my mom told me my Grandma died like two months ago two days before Tony has died. I said, "That sucks." What? It was my grandma for peets sake! "That Sucks." what the hell was I thinking?

I'm too fucked up for a girl to even like me - you know? But thank you for your dedication. I appreciate it!

Good luck with that girl! Here's another thing - I can be happy for others but not myself, now that's fucked up isn't it?

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