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I've met this girl, she has her boyfriend but he is living In russia while she is in france. I've met her and she gave me various ioi's but I couldn't get to kiss her because she said that that was a point of no return. untill now you can say that I wasn't that much interesting but listen to this: She was actually crying and asking me...if I kiss you what would you do then, if I kiss you how can I be surte that you will not just use me etc... I felt that from the kiss to the bed it would have been so easy, and that the kiss would have broke her resistance, but i couldn't get it. I told her that it was an inniìocent thing, she asked me that as well, she wanted to convince herself that it was nothing, that it wasn't her fault. What should I have done? sORRY IF IT'S THE WRONG SECTION, I AM NEW TO THIS FORUM
damn i always find it hard to get past LMR, even if it is a resistance to a k-close..i read in MM that girls need a "cover-up" as to why they are fooling around with other guys. this is because social status is very important to a woman, and that she doesnt want to be viewed as a slut because she sleeps with other guys when she has a bf. try a different method by stating something along the lines as:
"hey lets go over to my place to check out the paintings i have" (in example only) this way she has a cover up reason that she can use: "We were just looking at paintings."
its either that or you might have showed too much IOI, and she might think theres nothing exciting left of you (which happened to me).
hope this helps,
-G.L