Hi, first time posting, but I have been reading PUA stuff for the past few months. I must say, this sight and the greater PUA community have incredible insight. That being said I'm probably not the best person to make a statement like that. I'm 21 years old and in college but I have almost no experience with women. I guess its a bit of an excuse but here is what i believe to be the reason. For most of my life, up until the last few years I was morbidly obese. The time when we learn what works with woman thought positive/negative reinforcement, was lost to me because all reinforcement was negative. This constant bs has left me with little scene of how to read woman of my generation, but every female baby boomer boss Ive had has loved me. I'm not completely clueless, I can pick up on when woman is throwing herself at me, only happened twice.

But don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to be a bitch. Simply trying to explain my ignorance. As of today I have a girl Ive been working on for a few months, mistake #who knows, I think she like me but I'm not certain. I also am not certain of what she thinks my intentions are.

What I'm trying to say is that when it comes to interacting with women, I am a blank slate. Toady I'm not bad looking, rather intelligent, socially proficient and (by college standards) financially stable...I need to be doing something wrong. Thank you to all of you who put together this resource, I hope I will be able to learn and then contribute something to the community.