Guys I think I already mentioned this in another thread, so apologies if I'm repeating myself.
With 2009 nearly upon us, I'm writing my "to do" list for an exciting year ahead (don't ask!)
I did a similiar exercise in late 2007- early 2008. Everything I planned, came true...................................
Not only did I meet all my targets, I obliterated them . Call me an egotist, call me over experienced, call me whatever you like- IM A PICK UP ARTIST
Now I never claim to be a know it all or a "been there done all that person".
I am who I am day to day however I somethings feel that reading this forum is like Groundhog day. Same Authors, same debates (anymore Natural VS Canned Material threads=crap wasted threads).
Sometimes I do think my pragmatic, say what I think opinions are too blunt. I have such a rich combination of ballsy in field experience risk taking, talking to strangers for hours on end and theory, psychology etc I do feel over qualified . On a training course with a well known PUA Company I got the impression people thaught I was a corporate spy!
One of the instructors even said "I think you're over qualified for beginners game" you seem to know so much what have you done before?"
He then proceeded to tell me his inner most secrets. I won't plagerise them here (Tyler Durden RSD take note) nor pass them off as my own ideas.
One impression I got though was many people dwell on theory and end up getting even more stuck in their heads, or adding an additional "layer" to a false persona to try and confuse people. What people do not realise is that they know truly what their sticking points are. It is only when we sit down, stop the chatter sit still for 30 minutes and write down 4 things that limiting beliefs
But more to the point I don't think many posters "push the envelope" when it comes to Real Life, Practical threads you could gain a lesson from.
Sure they are well written no doubt, interms of spelling, grammar and even a thought for the day BUT for getting laid? Uhhhhh no.......
I would've though the most popular forum would be "F-closing" or sticking points about the long road to getting laid (for the record starts with a single step). There are so many "Sticking Points" or "checkpoints" on this road and even some that don't get a mention which could answer 5 problems in one fowl swoop.
For example I mentioned in a Thread anyone heard about "Social Circle Mastery?" I didn't even get one response asking "Who,what,how,why?"
Social Circle Game covers Careers, Social Status, Social Networking (a MASSIVE sticking point which is key for Female to Male attraction) Having a entoruage of HB9, 10s who are out with you knowing "the deal" (no, one "hot chick" and her pissed off friends count as a entourage!).
Also what about Logisitics? Anyone bothered?, anytone cared? anyone........ah forget it. You would've only gotten laid...........ahem
Instead we get threads like "I want women handed me onto a silver platter" or "Maybe I don't realise Im surrounded by women in College because they're here studying too and not becuase the world revolves around me" or (my pet hate) "Hi Im bored, I don't really have any real problems- but Im gonna fool you by pretending that I have self confidence issues such as I'm Ugly, I cant make decisions in life or women chase (pretend) shy men like on "the OC" to get a response (suckers!)
Anyways depending on how many people fess up about their age- I cannot tell if Im over-qualified.
I do have an as yet, unititled project for my own purposes which I will share with you all which proves I am not hypocritical and I will start a new trend of ACTUALLY DOING what I write about, so you can see an MPUA in the making. Im not doing this for money, recognition- this is going to be purely an experiment for my Psychology Course (which goes way beyond attraction, sex and dating)and seeing if Forums (not just <a href="
">PUA Forum</a>) will ever get out of theory hell
Be nice and I will post the details.