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Alright. I got a little predicament that I need a little help with. There's this club where I live that is basically one big dance floor. Theres a really tiny bar and like 3 places to sit which are normally already filled by people. So I have two options: Open on the dance floor or chode face in the corner. I choose 1. Problem is I look like a fool when I dance and you can't really open with an opinion opener or something on the dance floor cause they're busy and could care less if David Bowie is hot or not. So basic summary is: I can't dance, there's nowhere to really "talk" to people, I need an opener, and how to escalate with nowhere to go. and I'm 19 so the shittiest of the shit clubs is really all I got.
The same element that I have a problem with, but they are many ways to get pass this. I have a club I go to with the same dynamic, big dancefloor and little places to sit besides upstairs. You cant opinion open on the dancefloor, even if you cant dance you can go into sets looking foolish but if you energy level is right then anything is possible.
Most of the time, I open UG sets on the dancefloor, I get preselction and proximity. You can dance with the big girls and make it look like your just having a ball, the main point is, your not on the dancefloor hovering, with you drink just looking around aimlessly. When you open a set, I tap the girl on the shoulder.. he and her friends will look at me, and I just do something that no other guys are doing. Offer one of the obstacles my hand and twirl them around, and have fun with them.
Does this answer your question buddy?
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