Yeah, well, I think I am good to go actually (looks wise), only my teeth suck but I will get veneers when I get rich. Speaking of rich, I have great plans for my future and I am sure I will reach them because of my determination. But still, I need some girls right now, you know. But the only problem that makes me feel insecure is the lack of car. I mean - it is much more satisfying that you can be independant, drive wherever you want whenever you want not rely on public transport which works only until 11, and then need to buy a taxi which costs a lot.

I have my business growing a little by little, but it will probably take some more time until I can afford a good car (speaking around 10k dollars), because I just can't force my self to buy some cheap no branded shit. The same applies to wristwatches, for example. I really want a watch but am willing to buy only when I can easily afford at least 2k $ watch. And by afford I mean that it will be 1/15 of my total money.

But the thing is I feel like I am ready for "the game" now sometimes when I am free of work. Like - I am very confident in myself, have built a great body, am erudite, know how to fight, have good sense of style and good clothing, great posture, alpha male body language. I have all that.

The only thing missing to my coolness is a cool car.

I know you say that inner game is most important, but still - I just can't fit in that tram and public transport anymore. I use it, but I hate it and don't see myself "fit" in it. Especially when I go out in a suit or something.

I am not sure really what to do. I also don't have any spare time to spend to go to parties because my main aim now is to get my business going and steady income which I could rely on and live freely. I think I am on my right path, but sometimes I just want to get some time with girls, you know.
It's like my aim for life is:
1) Get rich
2) Master the game (or just get one very sexy/perfect girl)
Then I will see myself as perfect. Of course I want to start step 2 by little now but not fully because 1st is more important for my current sitation.

Sorry for sounding like a douchebag, but helpful advice would be appreciated and bear in mind my situation and life goals.

Cars ain't shit. I haven't got one, nor do I have my own place... and I have basically zero money. It doesn't matter. You need to stop focusing so much on material things; all you need is your kickass personality. I live in a small town and have to get the bus into the city if I wanna meet girls - I meet them for a day 2, and we go to her place after a while. If we've been together a couple of times and she wants to see my place she can get the bus if she doesn't drive. What it all boils down to is this: if she likes you, she will overlook pretty much anything as long as you don't make a big deal of it.

I see. That's cool. It's just unconfortable for me, but ok. I will try what you said. maybe someone else has more tips!

You seem to be relying on far too many crutches.

You need a car for coolness? Are you shitting me?

I don't have a car, my own place or even a job at the moment and I don't let that hold me back, as with Solomon. We go out every weekend to the city as we live in a small town with <20,000 people. Despite this, we still maintain a healthy social life.

If you need a car and a $2,000 watch to see yourself as perfect, that very trait is imperfect.

Stop relying on external things and sort out your inner game first, that's my advice.

Watermelon - Why do you think a $2k watch and some name brand car will help your game? It won't. Also you may want to check your ego as well as your inner game because from your post it seems your more arrogant than anything else. If you where truly confident then you would not need a $2k watch and a name brand car to game girls. And your ego won't need those things to be cool either. The fact that you "need" such things tells me your not really that confident as you think you need such materialistic things to game girls.

Forget the gadgets and cool items... Work on your inner game instead. Ok cool objects will improve your game by some percent but strong inner game will improve it by so much more...

Ahh . . . the inner game anthem.

It all depends on how you define "game".

To say materialistic props do not matter at all is a total lie. Of course it matters. You hair matters. Your face matters. Your height matters. Your voice matters. Your jacket matters. Your watch matters. EVERYTHING matters. You improve what you can, you accept the things you can't. You work on your weaknesses. You showcase your strengths. If you simply pretend what you don't have "doesn't exist" or "doesn't matter", you're just accepting mediocrity.

Yeah, I agree to Kasabi. A perfect man in my eyes is not only that who can sweet-talk girls in every situation but one who has proven himself also in business and other fields of life, that is why I see myself as imperfect, and I agree that those issues are more my problems than problems the girls might have with me. Forget about the watch, but the car, I believe, is important. Yes, I am materialistic and arrogant, I know.

I agree with everyone on this thread - I would listen up to Solomon II because he has good insight of things.

Also, Law Of Attraction is said to say - if you have a certain mindset or perspective on things (like you said you're materialistic and arrogent) then you'll only find those that are the same.

In other words, if you feel you can't find a decent girlfriend because you don't have a car, a 2k watch and so on and so on - then the girls you're actually looking for are "perfect" and gold-diggers. Here's a good analogy:

If you decorate a CHristmas tree - does it necessary make it beautiful? Sure - why? Because it's decorated with Christmas ornaments, lights and all the good things! But, if you strip down the tree from it's all fancy gadgets - will it become more attractive looking? Why not? See what I mean?

My guess is that you're concerned that if you wear a 2k watch and a fancy car then it will make you more attractive? Am I right?

I can't say what you feel or what you think - I can only assume. My guess is that you may experienced some kind of relationships but were stomped down. Possibly you may feel you need to become "PERFECT" because what ever is inside you (feelings, thoughts, etc..) you may not want to confront creating a sense of wanting to become perfect.

Thinking of such things won't happen - humans aren't made to become "perfect" because there is no such thing. If mortals were perfect then we as humans wouldn't need to look for external reasonings to make us perfect, thus creating a dull existance of it's own.

I use to want everything perfect - I gotta work hard and get things done perfect. I got to get a girlfriend who's perfect. In fact, I was looking for something to make me feel better about myself to feel like I've accomplished something that I was lacking.

So, in conclusion there might be something that you may be lackinig except for a car. Perhaps a sense of self-worth or personality?

My guess is the reason why you maybe experiencing trouble with women - if not any, is that you maybe experiencing a doubt in yourself, or perhaps a sense of worthlessness. Which I totally agree with because I had and still struggle with some of the symptoms.

You should look deel inside and try to figure out why you feel such things. Once you looked deep into and identify it - then you can correct. Yes, it will take time but patients is a virtue. Sex is great - sex makes you feel better but the bottom line is that (like everyone told me) you have to accept yourself and truely love youself.

Good luck bro!

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Law of attraction is bs. It is based absolutely on no scientifical evidence. It is just new age hippy crap. I know lots of people and know how to talk with them. I am arrogant and materialistic in my heart but only the closest people know that because I know what things I have to say to other people to think the best of me. This is forum and nobody knows my identity, so I can speak freely here. I am very rational, and it would be rational for me to be rich because that way I could travel around the world and cure all sicknesses (21st century man) and live to a very old age. This is why i want to get rich, not in order to get a cool chick or something, that's just a side-bonus. But such basic things as car is just that everyguy should have, you know, just like a good tie. I have high ambitions so to say.
I am not sure. I just see myself as a person wearing armani suit, an expensive gold rolex and driving a bentley. It's just an illusion as I see myself in the future. I already feel like that, I act as if I had all that in a way, but I don't have it yet. That is what makes me feel kind of weird.

question for you watermelon -
are the watch and the car for you, or for the target? In other words, would owning a 2k watch and a nice car be a confidence booster and thus improve your game, or is it for show? You don't *need* shit. I have met homeless vietnam vets with more game than the player who's ballin'.

I really don't know what is it for. I guess I simply enjoy style and luxury. I always was looking to either buy the best or don't buy at all. It's just how I am, I appreciate finest things in life. And I also want to prove to myself and the world that yes - I CAN DO IT!

I would agree Shadow. There's some big guys who don't earn a dime going out with 9's and 10's. So, the real question is that all of us are asking you is that do you feel confident to need more confident by buying car, 2k watch, etc..

Cure of the sickness is great! I would agree also - that's shows compassion for people but arrogence is a self-indulgence act that relies on only wanting what you want. Also arrogence is looking down on people because the person may think they're better than everyone else. Women don't like a arrogent person because they don't want ot be looked upon - you know that right?

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Right there you just said - I want to prove to the world and myself that yes - I CAN DO IT!"

A lack of confidence, and a lack of reassurence. So, being reassured by others and perhaps youself - then you feel more competent. Gaining more competent makes you feel more confident in yourself.

Over all - if you have a lifestyle that attracts people then it will become attractive to others. The question i have for you which I think would agree is a very important quesiton!

List five things you want in a girl:

List five things you consider sexy or hot in a girl.

List five things that you makes you feel attractive as a person.

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List five things you want in a girl:
1) Very attractive overall (face is important) + redhead is a big bonus
2) Is tough (has tough attitude, isn't a crybaby, has some "balls" - i think because that's what my mother is like and she is perfect)
3) Is tall but shorter or as tall as me.
4) Can back me up and will back me up. Be there with me in ups and downs, giving me assistance when it's needed.
5) Is smart but not in academic intelligence kind of way, more like street smart.

List five things you consider sexy or hot in a girl:
1) REDHEAD
2) Not being "blonde", stupid, Paris Hilton like, meaning, can stand for herself.
3) Tall
4) Physically fit
5) Beautiful face with symetrical facial features

List five things that you makes you feel attractive as a person:
Ok, i understand you asked what makes me attractive in my own eyes and things that i do have, well:
1) My attitude (confidence)
2) I have no authorities
3) I am fit and have good sense of style
4) I am unstoppable, if I want something I will achieve it.
5) I am very rational and logical