I was talking to this intimidatingly hot girl today and I lacked the confidence to ask for her number. So I was playing with her phone and she showed me this cool feature where she could draw shit then text it. So I asked her to draw me something then text it, she drew a piece of sushi so I sent a picture of my cat named sushi. She responded with cute, remember my name is ___ . So I made a joke saying I'd put her in my phone under a guys name. And I dont anticipate a response because im afraid that I might have gotten her number through a sleazy method and until I asked about putting her name in my phone, I think it didn't really register to her that I anticipated on keeping her number. did I trick her? girls on this fourm, was this good game or was it simply pathetic because her beauty stopped me from directly asking for her number, do you think there are "oh shit I really didnt want him to have my number" sirens going off in her head? have these sirens gone off i your head?

im not really stressin about this i am actually apathetic to be completely honest but Im asking sincerely for the knowledge of improving my game.

That is the sleeziest thing ive ever heard

Why? How did you get her phone? It matters.
[sarcasm]Sure sounds like she didn't want you to have her number or remember who she was and enter her name in your phone. [/sarcasm]

No that wasn't sleezy. That was flirting. It's perfectly alright to call her up and say, "Hey, remember me ______. It was fun hanging out with you, I'm gonna be doing _______, you should come hang out. It'll be good times!" Or some variation of that. That's how shit SHOULD happen!

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

hmm, interesting. So it doesn't matter just as long as you get the number I guess after all this time in the community I still over think things when someone out of this world hot comes along. Hmm *ponder* I dont remember how the phones came out but she gave me her phone because she was surfing the internet and reading texts on my phone.

funny little quip regarding this website here:

Her: Why did you go to pickupartist.com?

me: Oh that was an accident I actually misspelled porn.



Her: *big smile.*

maybe this is innergame shit and maybe im just posting because im pathetic and I am over analyzing because I don't feel like i deserve to succeed with a girl like this as much as I want to god I want to.
hmm this post has been enlightening. what is a good product for this(books dvd 8 track)? I dont like those hypnotist guys that say shit like she should be honored to drink the nector of her master, that's not really my style.

sleezy+1

I wouldn't say that it doesn't matter as long as you get the number. I'd say that it sounded like you guys were having fun and playing around. That's what you should be doing, just having fun. When you're just having fun and sharing good times, then the numbers just magically appear and it's natural.

I'd recommend Sean Messenger's stuff for you man. He's helped me out a lot by improving my perspective on life and people, but most importantly I think I've learned from him how to value myself without being overly cocky or arrogant about it; I think that's something you could benefit from (that's not meant as a slight even if it sounds like one, I hope you know what I mean man!).

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

At the end of the day my premonition was correct, she didn't respond to my text even though I know for a fact she got it and read it. so I'd consider that rejection simply by it's self. she's halfway inside my social circle so Im generally less aggressive when it comes to girls in my social circle because word gets around.

after reading that whole thing I posted by tyler durden I'm pretty sure she didn't respond because I didn't come off as a challenge by qualifying her not because of sleazy phone number getting tactics. while I was talking to her it deffinently crossed my mind to qualify her but I couldn't bring myself to do it. its okay like I said, she's in my social circle I will see her again. no rush.

I can see how I come off as arrogant. It's no secret . After my time on this fourm i've learned to embrace constructive criticism. so keep it coming. I will find everything I can about sean messenger .


happy holidaz
-mister fickle.

Little tip dude: Looks are binary, by this I mean a woman either thinks she is good looking or she doesn't. Challenge me if you want on that but my general idea is that regardless of how hot a girl is, if she gets a lot of approaches in a bar she will subconciously consider herself a good looking/attractive girl.

Regardless of this however, no matter how hot she is you should never doubt your game unless it is for the sake of calibration. You doubted yourself before even gauging how interested she is in you and that leads me to believe that you are tripped up by exceptional beauty.

Personally, I think you played well, however I suspect your inhibitions showed through in your personality and that seems to be one of the reasons there was a mild failure.

My two cents

-Stygian