If you see that a girl is checking you out/looking at you pretty often and you feel she is interested in you. How do you aproach? What line do you use? In different places: at the bar, in the shop, in the bus..

I would walk up and say, Its amazing how much you notice in a club. "I was in the doctors the other day and I read a magazine. It said that everytime you look at some1, 4 ppl are looking back. So you had at least 4 ppl checking you out while you were busy eying me. Hi, I'm ____"

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lol I like that. I may just use that one

Fuck yea. im glad you have this problem.. Heres the magic words...This is what you say that will show A)you are alpha B)You are the man C)you are very confident in yourself d)you are challenging she will find this intrigueing as it will seperate you from just about every single guy in the club. "I saw you checking me out, i was watching you" (say with a smirk!)

I have done this about 6 times, and i have had 100% positive results. Yes, numbers..sex and 2 of them actually fell in love, but i lost interest in them after sex. sorry for my rudeness.. what?! they were too shy..

If you have enough time to notice she's constantly checking you out, it's too late to do anything. It becomes creepy. You need to just open.

how about "hey you have a nice/pretty smile, whats your name?"

dont over-analyze stuff like this, its holding you back. i bet this happened to you and instead of approaching her u just thought about how to be a PUA. Its happened to me before.

Yes, there are times where you can be real. when a girl shows strong interest in you like that, its ok

If a girl is checking you out I would not be worried about what to say.
If you didnt say it right away then you might have blown yourself out and totally DHV'd to the max. The more time you takes you to approach the less alpha you look.

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if the girl is still "checking you out", she obviously is not that creeped out by you since she is still sending IOI's. So as long as you can still get positive eyecontact and maybe a smile, id say its not too late to go in direct and say "hi" and maybe something like manman suggested (i like that) but obviously the more confident and sooner, the better. Maybe the reason you never introduced yourself was bc you were going thru a rough breakup, or your grandma just died or some shit, she doesnt know. However, i would try and open indirect if you could, to seem more casual bc of the time gap. U seem like a wuss if you project interest after too long, but if you just make a comment or question on something in that particular situation to spark the conversation, you will seem like you werent interested in her just bc shes beautiful .....until... you opened up a conversation and got to know her. This arguably disqualifies her beauty as a reason for you showing interest as you should react w/ interests as she qualifies herself with non-physical attributes.

Thanks guys, very informative replies I like most of them.

However I would like to ask about that "creep" thing 2 people mentioned in this thread. Do you mean that If I don't aproach for too long I can freak them out as a creep?

It happens like this:
I glance her way and see that she is looking at me. Then I think - well maybe she just looking around. Then after a minute or two I glance to that side of the room and notice the same thing. And I still do not aproach. Then I catch that for the third time and I go and say something not too fancy (as you call here afc style) like: hey how you doing . Most of the time it goes well, but I don't like the fact that everybody is saying something like that

So you saying thats some kind of creepy behaviour by me?
Or please axplain what did you mean by creepy behaviour so that I would avoid it any time

Just don't wait long enough that it becomes awkward.. if you do you show you're timid and all that anyways a good one I've found is...

Keep eye contact or walk up to her after class or whatever your venue. Say, lowering your voice, and smiling, "ya know you can't just keep looking at me without saying anything"

It'll take her back and she'll try and qualify herself and start a conversation.

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I have used "What is this look i'm getting?" in a negging sort of way, always smiling of course

Kinda have something to tag onto this.

I have a class with this one girl and every time I look up she's checking me out, so about a month now. Now she's about a 9 and in the biggest sorority on campus, the reason I mention this is because I'm the Alpha Male in class but don't want to give any DLV's by approaching her. She's probably use to guys approaching her and I think she likes me because I've never really paid her any attention. Can I do something to let her know that it would be okay for her to approach me or am I gonna have to approach her in a certain way, again my main focus is to not show DLV or come across another Frat Fag.

"Hi, I thought I would come and introduce myself as it would be a shame to waste all the good eye contact we have been having" field tested and worked like a charm, shame the girl was so damn boring.

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u should post this as a new topic

from cajuns blog, have field tested this and works very well

Girl looks at me
I look at her, HOLD eye contact.
If she holds for more than 2-3 seconds I walk over slowly without looking away.
I get in close and in the most seductive voice I can muster I say “You can’t look at me like that and not say anything”