| Ok sorry for the long post here is the story
My friend has a cousin, by his standards she is a HB9 min. My friend was frequently trying to get her to hang out with him with her girlfriends but she always found some reason to refuse. Yesterday i took his phone and called her by myself (we never spoke or seen each other before) and started talking to her as if i was him, we talked for about 2 min until she noticed that it was not him, i continued the conversation for like 5 more mins, i negged her, made her laugh unstoppably during the conversation and promised to call her from my number the next day. Next day i called her at about 2 pm, suggest to met, she objected that she does not even know me, she needs to study, etc, i made few jokes and she agreed to meet me in the evening (it took about 2 mins to get her to agree)
I call her at about 7.30 pm and ask if she is ready and she starts giving me this bullshit about studying again, i make fun of her for being inconsistent, the conversation last for about 5 mins, during which i make fun of her, she laughs and everything seems fluent, but i get the feeling she has too much power in this situation, as if i am the only one who is interested in the meeting and that 5 min of persuading her to meet me is really enough. I refute her suggestion to meet another day by telling that im very busy actually and that today is the only chance she will get with me in a "cocky/funny style", then i tell her to call me when she will make up her mind and hang the phone.
she messages me in an hour telling that she will be finished working on her thesis late and it will be too late to go somewhere, but we can still meet for a short period of time.
I replied with: i have met with my friends already, will call you some other day (i think it was DHV as i was not sitting there waiting for her to call,)
She replied ok then, we will meet each other next time
Now what should i do next? She really seemed interested in me but was playing hard to get by making me convince her to meet with me.
I have few options
Call her in like 4-5 days and try to arrange the meeting again
Call her in like 2 days and just chat for a while to establish some comfort (what should i talk about with her?) and then call again in like 2 day and arrange a meeting
What would you do?
PS i have posted this question to ask Zip, Chief and Rye Lee sections, and I'm still waiting for their opinion, maybe anyone else experienced in phone game could help.
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