Okay, ive known this girl for about 10 months, we've never been close in terms of sexually, just been friends, but recently shes been showing me a real real interest, its weird how shes just changed.

-like she'll make suggestions how I am the ultimate BF which shes discussed with her three best friends ( one of them is my best girl mate )

- if im going to a party she'll say something like oh i should go next time, i can be the beautiful thing on your arm. and i would reply "yeah you will have to say your my GF" she said " ohh yes!"

- i'd make a suggestion of how she should come out with me christmas shopping and things like that. and she'll agree.

i played a little game on msn earlier, i had "shes so special" in my name, now this HB knows that i've got another girl after me beacuse i used to tell her about the problems i had. and she then put in her name "i cba with this again and again. so i asked her what was up, she replied "boys" i said who, she wouldnt say who it was, i said "do i know him" she replied "yee" i said to her "where does he live" and she wouldnt say to me, then when i tried to interrogate her she said "ok im off now babe, love you"

does she like me? im scared to make a move even though im positive the evidence is there, although ive seen her site and there is no messages from other lads on there :S,

i was thinking of texting her "what would you say if i told you i wanted to be with you?"

gimme some ideas here people any opinions

THANKS

give her some compliance tests. i only know some examples for GAMING not figuring out if a girl likes you or not. im sure theres some out there on the net, but in my non-professional opinion she seemed interested. dont blow this chance while u got it!

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From what you have described i dont even see the point of trying to deny that she is attracted to you.
You have all the IOI's and - important for looking of coming out the LJBF zone you have all the SOI's.
Put in some compliancy tests and kino escalate. It sounds like shes talking about kino with you but you havent described any to me.
HB: My arm would look good around yours
PUA: Hm ive heard that one before. Lets put it to the test. (grab her arm and put it around yours) Thats all you get for now.
Look for more non verbal IOIs. Physical. tapping knee to tell yu off etc.
Good luck

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cheers buddy,

any compliance tests you would suggest? also is there any i can do over text or msn?

Should i say something to her like...

"(name) i get the feeling you like me" or something along those lines, now i know she likes me I just want to know how I should escalate it to asking her to start seeing me or whatever...

Anyone?

This here my friend is problemo numero uno.

You need to make the move (not on IM). She wants you to. No games or routines man.

Best of luck.

This here my friend is problemo numero uno.

You need to make the move (not on IM). She wants you to. No games or routines man.

Best of luck.

lol get this, well yeah i decided to be straight with her, i went "do you still think of me as the ideal bf?" she text back sayin yeah why? so i told her well i was thinking of what you said and i think we shud give it a go. and to cut a long story short she didnt feel that way! i couldnt believe it, well anyways i said well thats cool cause i just wanted to be friends anyway ( i really did ) she was like well you didnt want it then? i was like nah i didnt want to upset you cause i thought you really liked me, so we got into an arguement and eventually sorted it all out, (or i thought so)

then she texts me today this ( x) i was like :S :S, i txt back sayin whats up? she said hmm i wonder. lol girls are hard work sometimes.

reckon she actually does like me then?

as i said im content with being friends but shes a very attractive girl, and making a move on her before didnt feel natural when i thought about it, but now it does :S

mixed emotions!

she actually wont speak to me now

at all!

usually i would sign on msn and she'd say hello straight away, lol i take it im out of the friend zone now

Make your god damn move man. I have been in this situation and not making a move will destroy you if you actually give a shit (DL will back this up 100% as he's seen it all happen).

If you fail to make a move when you have the chance to do so, she will not only lose interest but feel increasingly uncomfortable around you.


TL;DR: JUST MAKE A GODDAMN MOVE!!!!!

Ive asked her out lol!

she basically said she dont feel that way.