First let me introduce myself: 25YO white male that has never had or really needed game (so I thought), because I was in a long term relationship until a few months ago. Then about a week ago the bar where I shoot pool hired a new HB10 bartender. My first thought was forget about it, she’s heard it all, but after the second night I new I couldn't. So I loosen up with 3 beers and start to make small talk with her in between games. a few hours later she says she can't wait to get off work, so I tell her to make sure says goodbye before she leaves. When she does I hand her my cell and told her to put her number in, and without any thought she does! I was on top of the world. Then the next day a made a complete AFC move and text her the question, if she could spend a week anywhere in the world where would she go? (I know lame). So I get nothing for a good 6 hours then all she replies is Australia. I thought I blew it and didn't reply. Then I remembered a buddy telling about the PUA's so I checked it out and after reading a bit I came up with what turned out to be the perfect response... I told her that my phone died and had just gotten her message, and that her answer was perfect I'd love to go down under;)... We're going out this weekend so thanks can wait to read more.

Yo Precidian (whatever that means),

Great post and good luck with the HB10. My ultimate goal is to get an HB10 in the short future. That was a great response and I will be anticipating your follow up on the situation and some things you think that worked or tanked. Man, long term relationships are a game killer though. Everytime i get in and out of a longer relationship I feel like i lose my mojo. I think your Rodman will help you dive right into pu.

56Stillpimpin

From the information you gave, you did almost everything right.

You showed dominance by giving her your phone and telling her to put her number in (instead of asking/pleading like her number is some prize).

You texted her a bizarre but intriguing question that would almost guarantee a response, but at the same time it was so non-outcome based that her response didn't even matter.

That response was OK, sexual innuendos are always a plus. Personally I would have left that apology out and the thing about your phone dying (hey, I'm a busy man and she isn't the center of my reality).
Also, I wouldn't have agreed with her on the place to go. I feel it is more powerful to strongly disagree with her and to not let her convince you otherwise. I know this may sound a bit like over-analyzing, but there is a difference on the sub communication level by these different responses.

By agreeing with her, you are supplicating yourself to her and at the same time seeking validation. You are giving up your power to her and giving her the position of dominance in your relationship. By disagreeing and not wavering at all, you are establishing yourself as the dominant one and are not supplicating yourself to her. This gives off an aura of confidence in you, whereas agreeing can often give off a sense of neediness where you want something from her.

It sounds like you are doing great though so good luck to you
Even if you are having success, reading and learning about social dynamics is a very enlightening and fascinating thing that can have profound impacts on many areas of your life. Welcome.

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Great post

I am new to this scene and it does boost your confidence when you read a post like this and realise that this stuff actually works. Nice one mate (big thumbs up)

Also plethora made a good point which although new to the scene i have heard a few people mention One of my new philosophies is never apologise to women because i don't want them thinking they mean everything to me and that i am always trying to please them. You want to have control over them not the other way around.