First of all I'd like to start off by saying that college is not like what you see in movies. I go to a dorm type college where I live and from experience I can tell you that when you start going freshman year, you will not be getting laid everyday. (At least not by anybody that has any quality in them).

Now that that myth is out of the way, I'd like to continue forth and tell you that the worst mentality you can possibly have in your freshman year or anywhere, this even applies to a place you just moved to or a new job or anything, is the aim to get laid, or to hook up or anything with a sexual innuendo.

The mistake that I made was exactly what I wrote, my whole freshman year was horrible. I had friends, but barely any friends that were girls, I never got laid once during that year, and overall it was a big mistake.

What I'm getting at is that anywhere in the world, you should always have friends everywhere. If you get into the LJBF zone, its bullshit. Make a ton of friends that are girls, and you wont need to depend on one girl that you may like that wants to be in the friends zone. She'll see that you have many friends and that you're not dependant on her. Trust me, its possible to get out of the friends zone.

Anyway, I realized all this maybe like 2 weeks ago. I don't want anybody making the same mistakes I did. I'm not even really sure where to begin considering I'm not a freshman anymore. It's a bit harder to make friends now that everybody is in their own little cliques. But this year has been more productive than last year, thats a guarantee. Trust me, follow my advice, if your aim in college is to try shit like Mystery, or something you would try if you were older and already living on your own, its not gonna work. Girls are gonna see right through it . They want to see that you have friends and that you have social value more than any game. Countless times have I seen guys that know a lot of people that aren't particulary good looking or have any game whatsoever get with these really beautiful girls.

You DON'T want to be the creeper that goes out to the bars and tries PUA material on girls every weekend. (Not saying that I did but I was close to that kind of lifestyle)

Trust me. I'm telling the truth.

Oh, a really good book for college advice is Conquer Your Campus by Mark Redman. Good luck.

yeah i totally agree. college game is all about having fun and building social status. i read conquer your campus too, it has some really good advice.