What’s up to all of my single friends out there? I am clumsy_dad; I think it describes me somewhat well. I am in Eastvale Ca., 21 and looking to get my game back. I had a son about 2 years ago now and ever since I had him I find myself coming up short with conversation when I met a girl. I am a good looking guy because I can see some girls giving me “the eye” but I never get the nerve to go over and talk or even think of anything to say if she starts a conversation. I hope to fix this and get going again. I can’t wait for this season to get started so I can go snowboarding and just take my little guy up to the snow for a day to mess around. I never really watched the pick up artist on VH1 because I (no offence guys) think its lame but now I find myself asking for help so with that being said, thanks for reading.

Starting fresh at 21? You still got three quarters of you life ahead of you. A lot of guys in this community (including masters like Mystery from The PUA) didn't get laid until they were like 24. I agree, that show is pretty lame and is not useful for the purpose of learning at all. I suggest you look for some books such as The Game or Double Your Dating or Get The Girl or Magic Bullets. There is so much to learn and it is truly fascinating what you can do to change your life forever.

_________________
There are no failures, only feedback.