i was hanging out witht he ugliest red headed kid today and girls just kept coming up to him over and over and over again until he was fucking surrounded even though he wasnt even talking to them, he was talking to me.

i've sarged many a girl in my life and when reflecting non of them really come up to me and just start talking to me and hang around or anything. i've always had to go say hi to them first....

would being good looking have anything to do with this?

He probably has some really good body language. Being a pua has nothing to do with looks.


He is an alpha male and you don't even know it.

While looks aren't as important to women, if he was totally unattractive then this story doesn't make sense. Maybe he was better looking than you are giving him credit for but whatever....once he gains some social proof, girls will show him more attention and he wont have to do much more work to have them come to him. Next time you see a situation like this stop thinking of every reason why it SHOULDN'T be happening, but see what he is doing and learn from it. Chances are he was having fun and ran some great social circle game. But without actually seeing the situation I can't be certain either.

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what was he talking about? if its interesting the girls probally ease dropping and wanna join the conversation. Talk to you friends and make your voice be heard you will see people looking at you. Well if the girls like it they might just come next to yall waiting for you guys to open them.

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his conversation with the girls, completely ignored them and they just stood there waiting. others purposely interrupted our conversation just to be blown off. for some reason this blows my mind because i figured you reward good behavior. girl comes to you, you talk to girls. I also understand this is what i like to call the asshole complex, but maybe there's something to this whole asshole complex?

his body language: lively and energetic

his personality cocky to the point i can throw his name out in the class room and about every single guy will know who he is and hate him, with good reasons too.

the reason i bring up looks are because i have always had this standing theory that it is easier for a girl to approach an ugly guy much like it is easier for a man to approach an ugly girl.

the conversation: where we were going to meet after school. we settled on chick-fil-a, not quite a page turner.

Put it in layman's terms; he was having a good time and that is why people started flocking to him. They want to BE part of that. He gives off "good vibes".

Body language has a big effect on this; but its also about having a good time. Lets be real- no one wants to hang around someone who is a downer or looks bored.