any ideas how to get your gurl down for another gurl? get her interested I need more ideas besides styles one way...3sum stats boyyy

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There's no way to do it for sure.

It's very possible she's just not down for it. And if she isn't, you just have to deal with it.
I understand threesomes are a common fantasy but if the girl isn't down for it, she just isn't down for it.
Now some may tell you there's NLP and the like to get her 'interested' but if you want to see this girl more than once after wards, take it from me, you'll come off a lot better than if you try and force it.

Here's my advice:
-Never pick the girl for her. Let her pick the third, that way, she won't ditch due to jealousy.
-Ask, don't demand.
-Introduce it gently, as a perk rather than something weird.
-Explain it's a very common fantasy and how much you'd like it.
-Do not, Do not, Do Not force her into it. If she says she's not into it, move on.
-If she is into it, make sure you, her and the third set out some ground rules about what is and isn't going to happen. Communication is key.
-Make sure she gets a lot out of it, not just you.

I'm no expert on this stuff, but if you want to have your girl for more than this one night, then you need to broach it gently, and don't push it. If she says maybe, work her up to it a bit, let her know how good it could be for her. If she says yes, invite her to pick a third. Is she says no, drop it and talk about something way different, like kittens.

Like I said, not an expert, but I am a girl and I know how I'd react.

Cinnamon

you make her think about the idea of kissing a girl and make her think what girl she would kiss for example mostly ever girl i know would fxck or do something with angelina jolie even if she's straight! haha i called it plant the seed... plant the idea in her head see what she think about it GOOD LUCK with the threesome my dude

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You should bring it up like it has always been a fantasy of yours (which I am sure it has been). Let her pic the girl...the girl should be less attractive than your girl because you don't want your girl to feel intimidated and she won't want you to be into the third girl more than her. But anyway, get her to talk about her fantasies--be a nice bf and fulfill them! haha Talk about your fantasies. She may be put off by it but the more you bring it up casually the more she will at least accept you talking about the idea. And that is key...you have to get her to accept the notion of talking about it. When you are out, you can act playful and pick out girls and be like "what about her?" etc... The more accepting she is, the more curious she will become. But if this is something she REALLy does not want to do...don't push it too hard. I assume part of the excitement for you the guy, is that both of the girls are enjoying it. So if she isn't going to enjoy it, it won't be the fantasy you imagine.

Once you finally get her to go for the idea, you two will need to discuss some ground rules before it actually goes down. For instance, I would be mad if my guy kissed the other girl on the lips. You will need to make sure that you do set those boundaries so that awkward situations don't arise during the deed which will royaly piss her off.