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Even if they do know the material you're spitting, girls won't call a guy out if she's having a fun time interacting with him. Read some of Zip's and Bonita's posts if you don't believe me.

...OK maybe Bonita calls guys out a little more but that's besides the point. She's a crazy one.

I make sure the girls I game are having fun.

Games are supposed to be fun. THE game is THE fun. :P

I like to make a point that you can pick up a girl talking about ANYTHING, and there have even been times when I was gaming by talking about social dynamics and pickup. Still haven't been called out yet (by a cold set, I mean... there are people who already know of my glorified hobby).


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And then I wait for her to say something and be like "Hey, have you ever read Cosmopolitan?" and then I'm like "I thought you were one of those!"
LOL!!!

LMAO I was seriously laughing so hard just now after reading that.

This brings up the point of how hypocritical it is for women to be angry about men studying attraction when women have been doing it all their lives.


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Even if they do know the material you're spitting, girls won't call a guy out if she's having a fun time interacting with him. Read some of Zip's and Bonita's posts if you don't believe me.

...OK maybe Bonita calls guys out a little more but that's besides the point. She's a crazy one.

I make sure the girls I game are having fun.

Games are supposed to be fun. THE game is THE fun. :P

I like to make a point that you can pick up a girl talking about ANYTHING, and there have even been times when I was gaming by talking about social dynamics and pickup. Still haven't been called out yet (by a cold set, I mean... there are people who already know of my glorified hobby).


Yeah the reason why I did say something is because he was getting on my nerves with the whole "lets hug" thing...I dont want to hug a random stranger 4 times within the first minute of meeting him!! This guy wasn't good and I wasn't having fun. I didn't say it to be a bitch, I called him out on it because that was my way of letting him know that I wasn't having fun and I wasn't interested and he needed to try harder than what he was doing (*note: I say try harder because if I was really really uninterested I would have walked away).

I have always said that I need to date a PUA because I expect that from guys now and it is fun, but this guy wasn't a PUA he was just a guy who has read some stuff and didn't know how to implement it well.

And yes chief....I am the crazy one watch outttttttt


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"Holy shit! Youve read my book??..... IM Neil Strauss... normally my heads shaved but I decided to (whatever your hair is)
yeah. this is a good way to be made look a twat. no1 is going to believe you and the chances are if she knows what the book looks like shell know what he looks like. besides? why claim to be something that your not for higher attention? serious sign of insecurity =/

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"Holy shit! Youve read my book??..... IM Neil Strauss... normally my heads shaved but I decided to (whatever your hair is)
yeah. this is a good way to be made look a twat. no1 is going to believe you and the chances are if she knows what the book looks like shell know what he looks like. besides? why claim to be something that your not for higher attention? serious sign of insecurity =/
I disagree. I think you could make it into a nice joke. It all depends on hour you say it. Would have to be field tested though.

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"Holy shit! Youve read my book??..... IM Neil Strauss... normally my heads shaved but I decided to (whatever your hair is)
yeah. this is a good way to be made look a twat. no1 is going to believe you and the chances are if she knows what the book looks like shell know what he looks like. besides? why claim to be something that your not for higher attention? serious sign of insecurity =/
I disagree. I think you could make it into a nice joke. It all depends on hour you say it. Would have to be field tested though.
oh yh if you said it messing around and not being serious then definately i agree with you - but i dont think it was inteded like that...

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yeah. this is a good way to be made look a twat. no1 is going to believe you and the chances are if she knows what the book looks like shell know what he looks like. besides? why claim to be something that your not for higher attention? serious sign of insecurity =/
I disagree. I think you could make it into a nice joke. It all depends on hour you say it. Would have to be field tested though.
oh yh if you said it messing around and not being serious then definately i agree with you - but i dont think it was inteded like that...
If it was meant seriously, then no I don't think it would work. I don't feel lying is ever good.

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I disagree. I think you could make it into a nice joke. It all depends on hour you say it. Would have to be field tested though.
oh yh if you said it messing around and not being serious then definately i agree with you - but i dont think it was inteded like that...
If it was meant seriously, then no I don't think it would work. I don't feel lying is ever good.
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I was asked this question by a young lady at a halloween party a few weeks ago. I simply said,

"Why? Do you think i'm trying to pick you up?"

Ended that thread of conversation. :lol:


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Just say

' Yeah I'm totally hitting on you and you're fucking it up!, Now back to what I was saying..."

This is just another congruence test- agree, exaggerate and move forward.

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self exaggeration and self sattire are so over-played now adays in conversation. i feel like if the convo went something like this:
girl: are you a pickup artist?
guy: oh you seem to be better at this than me, ok you do me then!
girl: haha

whats really going on is

Girl: are you really trying to use prepacked lines to pick me up?
guy: ... yes. but its ok cause im super funny
girl: yea... theres no way some carbon coppied wannabe stud is going to charm me, im unique (turns off to the idea of you)


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I think the worst thing you can do is to deny it. We know. We aren't stupid.

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