I've got a 21st coming up 2 weeks time and I just found out that this girl who I used to fool around with a while back is going to be there... Because it's her cousin's 21st.

I really want to hook up with her again. Why? Because she is absolutely gorgeous with an awesome personality and to top it off, she's the best lay I've ever had.

So here's the situation:
We fooled around a bit for roughly 2 months about 3 months ago, we stopped just before I got into PU. Since then we've spoken occasionally but we haven't really hung out, we still text each other a few times a week though. She's got a boyfriend now (they got together about 2 weeks after we stopped fooling around) but the guy is a total douche and has already cheated on her so I really don't care about being "that guy", especially not if it means that they break up and we start dating (I really think she's girlfriend material)

As you can see, it's somewhat complicated. To top it off, I'm not sure whether there's any attraction left or whether I've been zoned because the only communication we had was through texting... And that's also just really been general chit chat, wishing luck for exams etc with the occasional c&f. I do however know that we have a LOT of comfort...

I've frozen her out this entire week (which means that I haven't texted her once), I will continue to do so until the 21st.
And this is where I'm stuck. I dont know where to go from here other than to game the shit out of the girls at the party.

Ideas? Suggestions on routines that could work?

i've tried this a couple times in vaguely similar situations so maybe try it out. you talk to her a little bit and fluff and then start here.
PUA: so i got a question for you.
HB: ok, what is it?
PUA: it's a really serious question, i need you to answer and be completely honest.
HB: ok

right here she's thinking it might be something about your previously relationship or something that you feel is important.

PUA: alright, do you brush before you floss or floss before you brush, or do you not floss at all?

(I took this from the collection of PUA Openers but added my own little twist)

HB: Ha ha ha ha your crazy, that's not a serious question.
PUA: i'm completely serious, it tells me what kind of person you are and if i can even talk to you any more.
HB: ok then, (then she'll answer).
so what does that mean then?

here i pull out a cold reading that makes her feel good about herself. i've had a couple different reactions from girls this way. one said that it was just like a horoscope and it could be true for anyone. i told her that she was right and i just made it up off the top of my head, but i bet she enjoyed it. to this she agreed and said it was really funny and then started asking me these deep questions.

another way she might go is to be amazed and give you that look like, "how the fuck did you know that?" this usually leads on to deeper conversation and you can take it from there.

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I'm not sure if I can use cold reads on her really... We know each other quite well because we spent a lot of time together while we were messing around (I'd see her like 4 times a week)

I like the idea though... But I'll leave the cold read out and then just stack into something new. I like the idea of planting the idea of our previous relationship in her mind and then going a completely different route... It's sure to stay at the back of her mind for a while and will probably help build some sexual tension.

understood bro. if i think of anything i'll let you know.

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Anyone can give up. It's the easiest thing in the world. To hold it together as you walk through this hell, when everyone else would understand if you fell to your demons, that is true strength.

You could also take the "AMOG" route too. Befriend her supposed boyfriend (if he's there) make him your best friend ASAP, find out real quick what his hobbies are and rap on that...then at certain moments, when she's near by...give her "the look"...letting her know you are the alpha male and convey that you take what you want in life. From there I would think you could get away with however you want to take it (like the scene from Will Ferrels movie "Semi Pro"...the guy will like you so much, he dont care if your with his girl!) Good luck brother!
Havok
"he who hesitates, masturbates!"

yeah, thats not gna happen.
the dude isn't going to be there.

but yeah, i'm over this.
she can continue to fuck that douche...

i'm going to find me someone even better and hotter... especially seeing as the party is in the city with the most hb's in the country.. which also happens to be my new home town to which i return in holidays (i study away from home)
could work out well... plus i can make a few new friends in my new home town who i can hang with during holidays.

think that's the best route.

good plan bro, that's the best advice that could have been given

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Anyone can give up. It's the easiest thing in the world. To hold it together as you walk through this hell, when everyone else would understand if you fell to your demons, that is true strength.