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KillerBee
PostPosted: Sat Nov 08, 2008 4:48 am 
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Hey there my fellow PUAs. I really need help about this concept because I got really attracted to this chick but she is hanging-out with my bestfriend (which is a girl). We've been hanging-out since the school started, we go to parties on the weekends, and all that stuffs but I just can't game her because she's also my bestfriend's friend. So, I don't know what to do guys. Thanks!!
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what the hell has her being friends with your friends got to do with the decision to game her?

you're scared of gaming her because you dont want to look bad in front of your friends

man up and game her and stop making silly excuses for not going after what you want.
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HCX is right on point here man. In fact, your best friend is most likely your best in to help you, not hinder you. If anything, the connection might just mean not to be a jerk in how you go about it, but if you game her with class, there's absolutely nothing wrong with it.
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Thanks so much guys! You guys are right.
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Best way of staying out of the friends zone is a STATEMENT OF INTENT.
don't beat around the bush. Just be forward and tell what u want.

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especially in high-school, it is almost a necessity to be well-liked by her friends. Several things to stay out of the friends zone:
- everything that is posted above
- don't get into conversations involving you acting as her 'therapist'
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Man your situation is great. Bust on both of them at the same time...if you can make them both laugh they'll both catch on to the fact that they are BOTH feeling attracted to you and it will be a bit awkward since they are friends...gives you a really good chance to build the tension honestly...with both of em :).
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Man your situation is great. Bust on both of them at the same time...if you can make them both laugh they'll both catch on to the fact that they are BOTH feeling attracted to you and it will be a bit awkward since they are friends...gives you a really good chance to build the tension honestly...with both of em :).
it's very unlikely that you'll get the best friend to become attracted to you through a bit of busting.
i would've rather gamed the crap out of the other girl and then be very nice to the best friend (to create the impression that i'm interested in the best friend and not the actual target).
done right, this could lead to extreme jealousy and a slight obsession.
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No man it is very unacceptable for me to hit on my bestfirend. It would be like hitting my own sister.

By the way, I was experiencing some Approach Anxiety and what I got was NOTHING. Someone asked her out a week later and kiss closed. :cry:

Thanks for the support guys!
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haha, smack her in the face, and you'll stay out of the friendszone:P
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Ask your best friend to see if it is cool. Maybe they'll even help you out...

I don't see why they would care...

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