Hi Im Symbol and currently in Norwich. New to the game, started very recently and still learning the basics.

Im 25, was previously in the Army but now a law student.

I am completely new to this and would welcome any help. I have tried a few techniques and maybe this field report will give an idea of where I am at.

At a party thrown at my house that I share with two other guys, this girl comes in and starts chatting with me. We go out in the garden in a group and have a smoke and she asks me do I think she's pretty?

I know that if I say yes and compliment her she will lose interest because it is clear that I am available (Mystery's cat string theory) so instead I neg her by saying that she has a nice figure and good style and she would be really pretty but that she had googley eyes (writing this down it all sounds a bit lame so not sure how it worked). This seemed to work because it wasn't the reply she was expecting and for the rest of the evening she kept coming up to me and trying to get me to say that she was pretty. It got to the stage that we were in my room and we were sat on the floor and she was saying to me"well you would sleep with me wouldn't you. why wouldn't you sleep with me?" Is this her validating herself to me? Im not sure if this is what should have happened?

The problem here is that I'm not sure what to do after I have negged her and got her attention. How do I move onto closing without putting her back into a position of power?

I then went upstairs where I started chatting with a different girl, and I tried out the rings routine and started making up some bullshit that the finger she had her ring on was symbolic of Zeus and that meant she should be confident and sexually adventurous, but then said to her that maybe she had it on the wrong finger as she didn't look very sexually confident or adventurous, to which she started saying that she really wanted to be like that and she wanted to be demanding in bed. Is this what was supposed to have happened? Again how do I then shift to closing or whatever comes next?

Any help would be great, sorry for rambling.

Symbol

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Is anyone up for sarging in Norwich i'm from London just moved to Norwich looking to go out tomorrow night or during the day for day game if so reply to me

Hey man whatsup? Yeah I have to say at the point when she was asking would you sleep with her. That was your shot man you could have gone into a multitude of advances at that point. You could have said something like "well I still don't know maybe you should give me a little incentive to" sometimes girls need to have a man take the reigns and show them what they want. Women respond to an assertive alpha male who is playful. Well anyways man I hope you can take that and gain something from it.

HenniGanni gave some good advice right there. If you used that you wouldn't give up frame control over her. Just make it a game with her

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