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PostPosted: Thu Nov 06, 2008 5:36 am 
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I'm floored that you still take what girls SAY literally. So if she says she won't fuck you (And you DREW this answer out of her buy treating her like a slut), you walk off? What kind of game is this? I love the direct game. You can play direct and raise your success rate if you'd just realize that women simply do not say what they mean. They say they're going out for groceries and come back with ear rings. They say they hate _____ and when they see _____, they hug, laugh, and kiss. If you realize this, you'd have cut this off and shifted the direction of your conversation in your example A. . . and scored.

And if you understand that women think this way, you can turn it around and use it on them
I understand there is resistance or test from woman, which I barrel through and then there's flat out rejection(flat out rejection is the focus of my post). I clearly understand what you're saying girls say one thing an mean another, I've had a girl call me a jerk and everything else under the sun but she continued to stand there just to test me to see if was going to back down, 5 mins later we're making...in that case she put up resistance as expected due to social conditioning then she realized "OMG I'm about get some dick YEAAAAA I can be as freaky as I want to be with him." On the other hand a girl walking away, making it clear this isnt going to happen or slapping me is flat out rejection and I've never ever been slapped. And no I don't treat women as sluts I just convice them to get past their social conditioning which tells them they're sluts and hoes if they like sex

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Reo, im very new to the game and this great post is a big wake up call for me...i never realized that you have to be this direct with women


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Reo, im very new to the game and this great post is a big wake up call for me...i never realized that you have to be this direct with women
Thank you
What you should take away from this is "Am I my true self when I interact with a female"

The only readers who can't see the value of that what was written are those who think "oh no a true PUA wouldn't do it like that' you're an AFC for doing that.
Props to mystery he is a master at what he does.
You are not him
But if it works for you then that is perfectly fine too more power to you

The way I am now you can never expect to see a post from me
wondering if I'm in the Friend Zone, or I"m having difficulty escalating/talking to HB9.

If anybody needs any advice feel free to PM me

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This is one way to run it and to newly converted AFC's, this 'absolute direct lecture game' can be a fun change of pace . . . but if this is all you're running, you're definitely letting a few go for no other reason than your need for (I wrote this several times) "verbal confirmation".

Instead of digging for verbal confirmation or driving them away with your sales pitch, you could just "accept" their style of communication. Just accept it. . . know it, love it . . . and eventually, fuck it.

I am accepting that your style has a place in our game and when things are right, I absolutely love it. In fact, I wrote a field report on the apocalypse opener a while back. And even in that particular case, she didn't ANSWER at all. But instead of digging for a verbal answer, I just accepted her body language and kept going forward. With all the field tested tools at our disposal, I just don't see the need to limit ourselves.

I mean . . . come on . . . I can't count the number of times where a girl goes. "OK, you can come up to my apartment but no sex." Why waste time with the interrogation here? Then she goes, "OK, we're gonna keep making out but no sex . . ." Interrogate here? In fact, I think it's kinda funny when she gets all worked up and goes, "No sex . . .OK? No sex . . . OK?" "OK, OK, OK . . OK!" LOL . . .


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I didn't find any info about how to get out of LJBF, just to avoid it.


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I didn't find any info about how to get out of LJBF, just to avoid it.
Its rarely the case you'll ever get out the friend zone.
After reading my post and if at this time this day you're swooning over a girl you like as more than just friends but are too afraid to tell her, save yourself future dissappointment/frustration and let her know. Yes it'll hurt if your rejected but at least you'll know and you can move on and never get into that same situation again

I had particular female friend with whom I was in the friend zone with. I Let her know liked after after a great deal of time hanging out with her. She wasn't sure about us and really couldn't see us together. Sooo i dropped her like a bad habit i would see walking around school from time to time say hey keep on going. I wouldnt give her the same attention as before.

Then once i got my popularity with the ladies up months later she came around...but then i really lost all attraction for her.
My situation where the girl came back is a rare case and it took a long time so you can't bank on it....If I had placed all my eggs in that basket waiting for her to come around I'd have been a complete idiot by hoping so.

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Push it to the limit!!!

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hahaha
awesome bro
made me laugh


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