Ok im pretty new to this and pretty clueless at times when it comes to signals from the girl. Saying that, if i dont know them its alot easier for me to act!

Theres this girl im working with and lately when im going out theres some serious flirting. Iv tried to get in there by making things seem less serious, so now we have this joke relationship going.

The last night when we were out with a group it was all messing about like that, to the point where she was sitting on my lap with her arms around me. She decided to sit down on me herself which i think is a good thing. We ended up sleeping in the same bed that night(it was the only one available). We were talking for a few hours about everything then drifted off.

If i didnt work with her i know i would of tried it on AGES ago and went in for the kiss but i just dont know if shes only playing friend wise or if shes into it. Im always jocking with her saying im gonna get her eventually. Its all pretty innocent flirting right now. I was texting her the next day talking about something completely seperate to the night before. She then brought up the bed sharing and how she told another girl and she loved it...laughing it off after then of course!!

I need some help? opinions?...or maybe just a pair of balls!!

Am i in the right place...or the friend zone?

trixy you are in the right place. Theres Plenty of IoI she is giving off theres a similar thread to the one you post here and he ended up sexin her to. Even Though you work together you can use it to your advantage. Notice how you change the subject and she bring up the subject agian. She wants you. If you we're in the friend zone she would of busted out the LJBF line already. TRY this next time you are at work with her say

"hey i'm having this Pajama sleep over at my place and you are invited"

since you regulary flirt it should be normal. but have her come over to sleep over. if she accept and come over . You are in. Dont get nervous and stuff. After she comes over * i Suggest you buy a funny Pajama if she does come over IE: spiderman, superman, something funny* Act like your gonna have the Fun sleepover. Let me know how the rest goes and good luck.

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Cool. That sounds good!

Another thing tho, she told me that she loves older dudes (i happen to be younger than her by about a year)...is this a sign not to? or is it a test?