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but how would you make yourself not look needy and starved for attention?
That's a perfect question and that's why I am here myself, there is no short answer, and I suggest you read the books Style and DD recommend. They reshaped my identity and opened up a new path in my life.
After spending time with a pretty girl, most men will develop feelings for her, and we want to spend more time with her. It gets to a point where we prioritize the woman in our lives. If a woman feels this you FAIL. It may seem to us that this is what they naturally want to see, but it's not. They want a man who is in control of himself, knows what he wants and works to get it.
Women always test men. They do this to see what kind of a man he is. If a woman is already with you she will shit test you ALL the time to see who you really are and if she can trust you. What they want to see on a subconscious level is a man who has a goal in life and he doesn't let his feelings run his life. If you want a fast improvement to this problem and you don't really have goals in life, then fake it. However if you want a long term relationship or a wifey, you need get off your ass and start figuring out what it is you want to accomplish in life, because if you are an actor, your bitch will find out sooner or later and lose interest. It's okay to fake it if you already know what you want, but not quite on the right path just yet.
P.S. I love that song by Seether, I swear he wrote it for AFC’s working on becoming a PUA
DHV yourself, it is very important that you never show a girl you want her more than she does you. Remember you are an ALPHA male (or at least you should strive to be since you're on this forum), ALPHA male is a masculine male (90% of all men are masculine in their soul, but nurture and laziness don’t let it reach the full potential in most of us, however personal improvement and determination will get you back on the right path). Most women are feminine, therefore they let emotions run their life and reason only comes in as a secondary for them. Men who show the woman they care about her more than she does about him FAIL! Because if the woman doesn’t feel, she doesn’t care. She might act like she does, but probably to make you feel good, or not to feel like a bitch herself. A Man might think: “Ohh! If I tell her I love her, then she will love me too”. but you are sooo wrong! This isn’t a trade agreement, it’s a fucking woman lol, you have to make her FeeeeeeL, she likes magic lol, not common sense.
Remember it's a game to them, except for most women (feminine women) it is natural (we learn the game to get laid), it is who they really are. They are emotional creatures, which is why we are attracted to them, because they are a complete opposite of a man's core - masculine. A masculine man is goal oriented, reason and problem solving is our priority (women have a priority to express their feelings, that's why they change their mind a lot, because they speak to express their emotions, not necessarily say the truth. Don’t forget what Mystery said – “What a woman says and wants are two different things”).
Make her feel loved, make her feel like she is with the best fucking man when she is with you! If you don’t think you are the best man, then fake it dude! You are working to be a PUA (I hope you are since you’re on this board). You got to learn to fake it, pretend you are in a movie. Tickle her, bullshit her. Learn what she likes, change it up a little and reuse it.
And you really can't hate a woman for who she is, but you can understand her sub consciousness and manipulate her. Just remember keep working to improve and you will get there!
CHAT
