I met this girl at a bar about 2 weeks ago. Got her #. Gave her a call 3 days later, and left a warm message. Two days later I got nothing, so I texted her, hey, did you get it... Nothing. I waited another 1 1/2 - 2 weeks and called her again. No answer, she texted me back later that she has a boyfriend but she would like to hang out as friends because she really enjoyed talking to me. Although I wouldn't mind her friendship, I went for it anyway and texted her back with, "haha, don't flatter yourself, isn't that your boyfriends job?" Which I think might have been too heavy, because she texted me back, "fine, I won't keep your number, asshole". I just replied to that one today with, "Wow, you're ruthless, what did I ever do to you?"

Anyway, I'd rate her between 6-7.5.. She is an average looking student, but she is very cute.

Do you think my negging was too harsh?

move on you already got the LJBF line. if she a 6 why bother?. never settle for the least always go for the best the .elusive HB11

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ah you're right. should have just let it go.

Cut your losses, son. Seriously, even if she was a 10, it would take SO MUCH effort and time to get her to ignore her bf and that's only if their relationship's rocky. Plus things like BF Destroyer Patterns are more for advanced level when you've got all over bases covered tight so wouldn't really be suitable anyway.

Although i'd say the fact that she "wanted to hang out" even though she had a bf and gave her number to you at a bar means she was actually interested.

7HB or bust imo.

The fact that that's how the time line scale is definitely a no no, plus the whole thing makes you look clingy, and woman, no matter how clingy they are, will see that as clingy, and that my good sir makes you look bad. If you were feeling ballsy, you could try get her and a boyfriend to a club, and get your wing man to distract while you tried to win your way. But given these prior conditions, I think its a little to late for that.

Wyrd.

OK, I am a complete AFC but that doesn't sound too harsh to me.

I think it just made you seems like an asshole, a neg for negs sake is an insult. There are lots of different ways you could have taken that but realistically I think you were already friendzoned so there was nothing to gain anyway.

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Hey,
Maybe shouldn't have kept trying to contact her. You gotta remember if it's been too long you, or even just on the phone you lose all the attraction you could have made. Hell, I only call to set up dates. That's all the phone should be used for... besides calling buddies.
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It makes things a lot easier when it comes to picking up girls when you have a female friend along side you. Even if she is a 6.

Hey. That was too strong. It wasnt a neg, it was a complete insult. There was no compliment in it at all. There is no reason for her to want to hang out with another guy outside of her BF unless she wanted something that he wasnt providing for her. If I was her BF and found out she met another guy, dropped her number and was going to hang out with him.... I would flip.

I am gonna credit ace_of_spades here. When a woman want to be "Just friends" this is how you reply.

HB: Lets just be friends
Pua: No.
HB: What?!?! well fine then. Blah blah blah
Pua: I can't promise to be just friends. Friends don't put frineds in boxes or categories. What I can promise is that nothing would happen between you and I unless both of us wanted it to."
HB: ......
Pua: Now come over here and "Neck dat!"


Ok, the last part I added. Don't say that... But if you do, and she says yes..... Thank me later.
CK

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i agree with chino b/c she had a bf negging her (she who already has something going and is not particularly looking) really wouldnt work out. i wouldve left it on good terms or just deleted her number after you tried the second contact. forget them.

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i agree with chino b/c she had a bf negging her (she who already has something going and is not particularly looking) really wouldnt work out. i wouldve left it on good terms or just deleted her number after you tried the second contact. forget them.

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