Hey,

I've been meaning to participate on this forum a lot more often, but theres been one thing keeping me from doing it.

I live in a dorm, doors open with a roomate. Girls, guys, everybody comes in and out constantly. I always get questioned about what I'm doing online even if I'm just browsing forums.

So, would it be too much to ask to have a board administrator upload a second template, completely raw or whatever, just so it's not completely obvious that I'm publicly reading about PUA? It wouldn't be a good thing to have girls in a dorm find out.

Even just the default subsilver theme. So I can play it off as reading a gaming website, looking for a download, learning photoshop, whatever.

Stop being so concerned about what other people think. If they ask tell them that it's interesting stuff that you're reading about and they'll probably be interested in checking it out with you. Nothing wrong with that. Everyone I know, knows that I'm involved with this stuff and it hasn't hurt me at all.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

+1


Its not like your looking at porn or something illegal.

I don't understand the problem to begin with. The forum doesn't look sexual at all. There are no pictures of women or anything like that, that would tip off someone that it's a pua forum unless they were standing right behind you (in which case the posts themselves would tip them off regardless of the template).

Normally I'd agree with you on this point, Rye Lee, but we are talking about an aspect of college game that actually changes things a bit.

I had this open attitude last year about my PUA shit. I go to a residential university. Here's how things ended up:
1. My Fraternity brothers give me shit about pickup and that VH1 show all the fucking time, and they even AMOG me in front of girls about it.
2. Some girls talked shit about me amongst themselves behind my back after they heard that I did this "pickup thing" and just assumed the worst and made up rumors. Now there are a few small social circles of girls I just CANNOT touch. Luckily for me this doesn't affect incoming freshmen girls... but UNFORTUNATELY for me I've been sarging older crowds at bars and stuff to escape the oppression of college game so much that the freshmen girls are starting to look too young for me.
3. Now some people think I'm some kind of creep who takes advantage of girls with low self-esteem when this is not the case.
4. People ended up googling me and finding my PUA blog and other stuff. The fact that I've made myself pretty damn popular caused a lot of people to do shit like this.

Oh well, at least I'm still one of the cool kids that everyone says hi to

I live in a dorm and this is what I do when I'm on this site: I scroll down just enough so that people can't see the big words at the top of the screen. Works for me.

HAHA same, i just scroll down and don't try closing it as soon as someone comes in, i just look them in the eye, start a convo, and open a new tab with somthing else lol