I know i been replying to most of the post here and giving insight and taking up notes for myself but now i need your help fellow PUAs. Even thought i dont go often but my buddies will probably end up at a strip bar. What are some ways you would game a stripper.
1) i dont want to spend $ on any of them (its just not the way i roll)
2) i wanna convince them to come pary with me in my suite (pretty nice one to)
3) hit it and forget it .

The place i'm visiting is Guam it only has strip bars and barely any regular bars to go to. Plus local women are out of the question ( either they are all married or getting married) Small island, everyone knows everyone. I'mma try some of my routines and stuff i read and i might even recored it on video for you guys to see. this is basicly a live and learning experiances. So guys Help me out.

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iv been to a couple of s.clubs (but not too many! )
lol

and i think its near impossible to game a stripper...

although... they know guys in the strip club want them... could you play on the fact that you dont want them?

make urself the prize?

its their job to excite men, and be professionally flirty to get money off them.

everything will be a fake IOI..

its a tricky one... personally i wouldnt bother, but it would be a great achievement..

goodluck

Look into what Mystery has to say about it. Strippers are one of his specialties and he has a lot of great advice.

In a nutshell though:
- DHV like mad
- convince them you have a lot of beautiful women in your life (if possible, lie and say you dated a stripper)
- be aware that most IOI's are fake. Some, like touching hair or scratching wrist, are real.
- do not pay them for anything, deny any dance offers ("not in that head space right now.")
- don't kino unless she is really comfortable and you are showing her some palm reading trick or gambit
- do not show any interest in their looks, at all ("you're not my type")
- have a reason to be there. Say you are meeting friends or you know the DJ. (actually befriending the DJ helps)
- don't stare at the strippers
- try to elicit values from them, show interest in her personality afterwards
- if at all possible, bounce her to another location before trying to close. If you can't, then just do a basic # close routine

gaming strippers is not impossible. in fact its easy, if you believe it is. just don't be like everyone else in the club. go in and act like you're the center of attention. fuck the strippers, everyone is there to see you. you're the attraction. The first stripper that approaches, tell her you're gay. not just flat out, but something along the lines of, there's all these guys who want to pay you money and you're hitting on the only gay guy in the clubbing. she'll come with something because 1) you just disarmed her 2) you just implied she was hitting on you. if she says something about the latter just keep going being cocky funny along the lines of ya youve been checking me out since i walked in. she'll say something like, it's my job. come back, oh right, just like its your job to stand here not getting paid to hit on me. just neg like crazy and whatever you do DO NOT PAY THEM! if one offers a dance, say something along the lines of I might let you dance for me, but why would I pay you for it. Don't be a dick though, smile the whole time. remember you're there to have fun, not dates these girls. every lonely chump who walks in falls in love with one of them and scares the shit out of them. you have no intention of seducing them, just having fun. they want to have fun at work too so they'll catch your vibe and eventually you'll have them competing over who gets to dance for you. props work too. bring suckers, a boa, a funny hat if its allowed. and when they try to take it (and if you do it right one will) tell her she can use it but she has to give you 10% of whatever she gets tipped while wearing it. whatever you do, remember you're the center of attention and you're the prize. They're there to please you, not the other way around. good luck!

great info guys, keep it coming. 2 more days and i'll test them out. i'll let you know how it goes!

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convince them you have a lot of beautiful women in your life (if possible, lie and say you dated a stripper)

This plus Zen's advice on having fun and not making her the center of attention is great advice.

Dancers deal with allot of b*llshit throughout the night. If you could make the interaction fun for her, WITHOUT showing any sexual interest, your golden.

Withholding sexual interest in 'any' woman is a very powerful tactic, especially with women in the adult industry.

Note: don't come across as 'cocky' when holding back sexual interest, this communicates insecurity. You are better off acting a bit 'bored'...her physical appearance is no big deal. But, don't over do it. Show 'some' interest after you notice her trying harder.

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All of this is good... some other things i would add to it is do not be seen as the perv type so do not sit in the front row. As others noted, do not pay for their services because at that point you will be seen as a customer and if you're trying to game them, it will work against you. The most important thing when gaming a stripper is DHV! Savoy mentions possibly befriending one of the manager's by coming in when it isn't busy and asking about a bachelor party for the weekend. Maybe buy him a drink or something... something along those lines so you can become friends and he can recognize you. When you go to the strip club, you can be seen sitting with the manager or being friendly with him, raising your value significantly.

Maybe find a local girl who is single and bring her along. If a stripper sees you with another girl you'll definitely be peacocking. Also, tipping them is the worst thing you could possibly do. Maybe try and sit at the bar facing away from the young girls. Btw im not sure if this will work i saw it on an episode of manswers and im only 16

well heres the low down i never set foot into the strip bar once lol. I got sidetrack heres the story. BARE with me its a long breakdown.

31st oct.
ok so i set out to find a place to eat after checking into my hotel and ended up going to T.G.I. Fridays. I was walking there i spotted a 2 set. One 9 and one 8, as i passed by them I made eye contact with both of them. i got a smile from one of them after about 2 sec so i thought to myself " ok 3 sec rule GO!" my buddy (turned wingman) at the time was just taggin along. So i opened up to them with a "hey is this a good place to eat?" but to my suprize they didnt speak a lick of english (visitors from Japan) Since i live in Japan i Asked again in broken Japanese. This time it worked, I found out where in Japan they livesd and there name (HB9 was Ayumi and HB8 was miko) at this point the language barrier got in the way and i was famished so i gave up and asked them" hey wanna go eat?" but i got declined since they just got out of eating there (duh me ). so i just said "ok nice meeting you see you around in Japan " and just left. before we got to the resturant i turned around and wave and they did the same. right then there b/f came and before we got inside the girls intro us to there b/f -_- i just said " hey nice meeting you, i gotta run, very hungry, we'll party sometimes in Tokyo" exchange # with both the girls and the b/f (i found that very funny cause the b/f we're more excited about it then the girls those crazy japanese)

after the awesome meal me and my buddy greg ended up at a club called "posh" mostly everyone was in costume since it was halloween and i had nothing to peacock with. I ended up making friends with one of the waiter (dressed up as a blonde school girl which was kinda disturbing) and waittress . Negged the waitress (hb8) she gave me her name (i dont remember it thought) and got free drinks which was awesome. Ended up with some dude pimp hat which was freakin huge and it glows int he dark. Game on i had my peacocking item. I's randomly walk up to a girl. No word. take off what they where wearing put it on my head and then put my hat on there And just walk away. "i get a pretty good responds.

Bumblebee girl(hb7) : hey thats mine
NonStop: oh? it looks better on me plus my hat getting you alot of attention.
Bumblebee girl: You lair
NonStop: no serious look *point at opposite direction *
as she turn to look, i walked away from the dance floor
and instantly open up another set right there
G.I Hoe, Poke-her -huantus, and a nurse that had less clothing then a stripper
NonStop: Hey Nurse my friend just gave me this bumblebee antennas and she took my hat ..does this look better or my hat?
Nurse: um it looks alright
about this time the other girl who i took her antenna from is walking towards me so i motion for her and right before she could say anything
NonStop: this is the friend that gave me the antenna, intro yourself.
Bumblebee girl : Hi i'm Diana
*the other girl intro themself to each other* at this point i havent even given them my name. they start talking alittle and i interrupt them with
NonStop: Hey i left my friend over there *point at seat* by himself i'mma get back to him.

so i left and returned to my friend.i still have Diana antenna with me and she still has my hat. At this point i'm out and about dancing and having fun and i run into Bumblebee girl #2

NonStop: .. how did you get the same antenna as me?
*at this point i didnt relize she was from Diana's group of friends*
Bumblebee#2: you probably got it from the same store as me..
NonStop: thats where you are wrong i got it from the girl over there with my hat *points*

Bumblebee#2: oh thats diana!
NonStop: oh are you girls sister? or something?
Bumblebee#2: no no we are friends.

at this point the club as doing some costume contest
NonStop: hey grab Diana and lets go up on stage , just follow and play along
*we get diana at the same time i took her other friends antenna *bumblebee#3* (there was a whole swarm of them ) and put it on Diana head and gave my pimp hat to my wing man to hold
So now i'm with Diana and Bumblebee#2 infront of the club crowd on stage with other people. So the host was walking around asking us what we we're (at this time i got both the girls in each of my arms) and he ask

Host: What are you guys Suppose to be?
NonStop: i'm the King bee and these are my sexy worker bee's

suprizingly the girls turn around and started to wiggle the fake stinger which got the crowd cheering into an uproar. Unfortunitly we lost ( G.I hoe who i talk to earlyer won )
at this point Diana turns around after we headed off on stage
Diana: Hey i never got your name?
NonStop: I'm (insert real name)
Bumblebee#2: i'm Susie
NonStop: Nice to meet you.

about this time i notice my friend starting to.. fall asleep from being to drunk and ended up leaving back to the hotel. I didnt worry much cause i had a girl coming over later. This was Day 1 , Day 2 got even more crazier!.

check out field reports for the full report.

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picking up a dancer (DON'T call her a stripper... she HATES that, and not in a fun way), is kinda easy if you can own it.

Don't be the guy who's acting cool. Instead, make deep, deep eye contact with her. Smile. Enjoy her. Enjoy her dance. Smile big and say something like "hey darlin! you look gorgeous tonight, baby!" when she dances before you. Give her full attention and again... LOOK IN HER EYES.

Then when she asks for a dance, get to know her for real. She may not open up, but she'll notice the difference just in the fact that you look her in the eyes. 99% of dudes at strip clubs will not look her in the eye. Be the 1% and she'll notice.

But don't date latina strippers named Jen from New Orleans or Vegas. Voice of experience.

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*take out note pad * latin stripper named jen from New orleans and Vegas got it Sean

thanks for the diffrent perspective on dancers. I have to us this also thats if i ever set foot into a strip club. Hm maybe if i incorperate what was told to me earlyer with a deep eye contact somehow mix it up.

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