maybe kind of a luxury problem, but this happened to me 5 times this year (on first date) and i cant figure out why:

- we kiss, i lick her boobs, she sucks my dick thoroughly...
- but she refuses to take her pants off!
- so i stop and pretend i just go to sleep (LMR tactic)
- she comes back for a hug and a kiss, and she usually starts sucking again
- i try again to touch the pussy.. doesnt work, so i pretend i go back to sleep again....
- repeat a few times, until i really just go to sleep
- next morning they are still willing to jank/suck me (and they usually do) but i dont even try any more.... (because i dont want to seem greedy because i feel i will get rejected to the pussy again)

on the next date its fixed all of a sudden and i usually fuck their brains out.

these girls are actually all young, but very sexually experienced girls.

does this also happen to you guys?

why do girls do this??

this is my theory of what the girls thinks:
- if i do fuck him so soon, he will think i am a slut and i will lose him
- if i dont fuck him, he will think i am boring and i will lose him
- but i am so smart: i just suck his dick and make him crazy!!! (or maybe just "make him crazy" for my own pleasure without the above reasons)

but maybe my theory is too positive?

Relax, this doesn't even qualify as an issue. You don't even want to have sex on the first date if you want to keep seeing them or even just hooking up with them regularly because it gets awkward on the second date. I wouldn't even accept a blowjob on the first date if I was interested in a more than one time thing.

man you suck.....every passionate relationship starts with passion!
haha, dont you know that line?
we should fuck them straight away! passion=passion

not for me man. I find that fucking them right away is seriously detrimental to a meaningful connection. But to be fair, what do I know?

Holly crap! This happened to me too!

What's the solution for "no fucking... yes sucking..." girls?

Dude, since you fuck on the next date it's not even a problem.

yeah I wouldn't really say that a girl who wants to suck you off day and night is a huge problem
maybe you aren't arousing her enough? you seem like you are just laid back and getting head... instead of touching her pussy or trying to take her pants off I would kiss her neck and bite gently for a good few minutes then play with her tits and then rub her pussy even if she has her pants off then slowly try to escalalate...maybe some of these girls have their periods the first date ? coould be a possibility

Ummmm...Period? Hello folks? Isn't this kinda obvious????