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imanewbie
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what do you think she is thinking and why?
If you call/text a girl and she doesn't reply...don't lose all hope. She could have been busy and didn't get the message yet. If you contact her twice without a response...back off!! She got those messages and if you call her more it is going to look clingy and needy whether you are or aren't. give her a few days to a week like you did before and then contact her if she doesnt contact you by then.
I may make a try on thursday. Thanks a lot for the insights Bonita. :) But another question regarding this...Doesnt this lack of communication slow things down too much? Dunno I see as relationships should have a rythm, if they don´t progress they die and in this context the wait seems strange for me.
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imanewbie, I think you are thinking too much into this.

Just relax.

One way.. to occupy your time and your mind.. so you don't pedastool or trip over one girl.. is to go find MORE!

More girls.. is like a magic pill to cure... AFC behavior. :)

P.S. If she brings up... the engaged thing.. you can talk about it briefly.. and relate to it.. then change the topic to something positive!

Always.. try.. to keep the convo... as positive as possible.. People will relate the feelings they feel when they are around to you.

Example.. you always hang out w/ a girl when she is in a pissy mood. She will now want to avoid you.. cause of those feelings.. Vs. if you meet someone.. when they are in a GREAT mood.. they will remember you that way!

Think about it.

If you have any questions.. feel free to PM me. :)

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what do you think she is thinking and why?
If you call/text a girl and she doesn't reply...don't lose all hope. She could have been busy and didn't get the message yet. If you contact her twice without a response...back off!! She got those messages and if you call her more it is going to look clingy and needy whether you are or aren't. give her a few days to a week like you did before and then contact her if she doesnt contact you by then.
I may make a try on thursday. Thanks a lot for the insights Bonita. :) But another question regarding this...Doesnt this lack of communication slow things down too much? Dunno I see as relationships should have a rythm, if they don´t progress they die and in this context the wait seems strange for me.
Relationships rely on communication...but that does NOT mean an abundant amount of communication. Every couple needs a different amount. I don't know her personally but with most girls...to much one-sided (meaning you calling her with no answer from her) communication will freak her out. Even if you two establish a rapport and good flow of communication back and forth it is good to break off comm for a bit. Early in a relationship there needs to be a sense of mystery and the sense of "omg i hope he calls me soon!!" so that when you do call, she is excited. If you talk to her all the time, then you don't allow for time to elapse and for things to happen in both of your lives which can make for interesting convo.
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Relationships rely on communication...but that does NOT mean an abundant amount of communication. Every couple needs a different amount. I don't know her personally but with most girls...to much one-sided (meaning you calling her with no answer from her) communication will freak her out. Even if you two establish a rapport and good flow of communication back and forth it is good to break off comm for a bit. Early in a relationship there needs to be a sense of mystery and the sense of "omg i hope he calls me soon!!" so that when you do call, she is excited. If you talk to her all the time, then you don't allow for time to elapse and for things to happen in both of your lives which can make for interesting convo.
thanks a lot for the great reply, this is something I missed! Well we were more or less in the rhythm you said calling each other like each 2 or 3 days, Hmmmmmmm. I can really see your point now. I will take it for life! Thanks a lot!:D
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