The point i am trying to make is, phone game and text game dont differ much for what i use them for.
They shouldnt really be used, imo, to build attraction or get to know them THAT much more. Do it face to face, its far better. You can do all the things you said about doing on the phone face to face far better imo, you get facial expression, touch and all those sort of things.

All i feel phonegame is really used for is to *maintain* attraction and her thinking about you until you get a day two.

Why do so many guys rely on text game and not calling the dam girl? I can understand using the text game a lot in high school. But once your out of high school I don't see a reason to be really texting girls. I can see in using it every now and then, but why rely on it so much? And before someone says "I do well on the phone". So? If you where able to talk the girl at the club you can speak to her on the phone. Its really not that different. I am not saying I am some pro on the phone as I am not. But I just see it as bad way to communicate with girls when you get past high school. As its not a personal forum of communication. While talking to the girl on the phone is personal.


I know am ranting but I just find it amazing to how many guys here do the whole text game and most come to find out that it really does not work. And it usually ends up with them loosing the girl.

I prefer texting in the very early stages. The reason being that I communicate the message that I'm busy and don't have time to spend 10 minutes on the phone with someone I barely know. Once we've connected a bit more by day 3 or so I'll drop the texts and talk on the phone more. That being said texting has backfired on a couple occasions. I see both sides of this.

phone communication counts as interaction in a location. does text?
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i agree. its a form of escalation. just with verbal interaction instead of physical.
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I would say for the most part yes.

That is a good and valid point. Tho the question becomes how much do you text per day for each new girl? Or per week for that matter? As I would guess by the 3rd week or so you would have got out with the girl at least 3 times and would know if you wanted a relationship with the girl or not. And I would say by then you would spend your precious 10 minutes on the phone talking to the girl. But one could say that by you spending just 10 minutes on the phone you are giving the girl an IOI. Where as texting does not give such an thing.