i'm just curious to know if you guys think that attraction can just never be built with certain women, depending on the PUA's personality. kind of like how magazines are meant to attract to only a specific niche of people, knowing that not everyone will necessarily flock to them. or is it possible to build attraction with any female using methods? i know i probably should have asked this kind of question long ago, but it didn't dawn on me until only now.

this mostly stems from a personal failure to attract an HB9 whose personality I genuinely like. though i'm most likely suffering a little oneitus, it just bums me out to know that i'm not able to attract her.

For any girl, there is a way to make her feel attraction towards you. 90%+ will want you after DHV'ing or pre-selection or negging the target. Girls, for the most part, are predictable and follow a certain criteria on what they feel is attractive towards them. If you can be the life of the party, be surrounded by females, be entertaining, be the leader of men, and perhaps be very confident and competent with interacting with females, then you will have a certain amount of attraction built towards you before starting the sarge.

Plethora has a point, but don't forget - building attraction is one thing, them doing something about it is quite another. Some girls are just plain not looking for someone, and they turn guys down. Not because they have somethnig personal against them, but because of their emotional state or beliefs and values. If a girl has just gone through a really shitty breakup, or a family member has died, or something like that, she needs time. On the other hand if she just wants to be single, and believe me, girls love being single, she may turn you away because you are demonstrating to her that you're boyfriend material and that's not what she's looking for.

The bottom line is, even if they're attracted to you they won't immediately jump at the chance to be with you just because you DHV'd and showed some preselection or whatever. You need to be cunning, figure out what it is she wants, and act accordingly - even then, some girls will just plain not be attracted in the way you want them to be. You cannot seduce any woman. Period.

you cant attract EVERY woman your right, so if you see yourself in failure one time just dont blame yourself to harsh maybe you werent her type or something, but always look back at what you did and see what can be improved....

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How You Approach Is A Matter Of How You Feel "mPUA Savior"

You Live What You've Learned

i always say if u really like a girl and all game fails, tell her the truth, and be humble.

tell her your a big fan of her and you've liked her for a little while but recently you guys did ____ and after that you missed her

something like that, its good afc/natural game mashup.