Hey guys. For some reason cougars are drawn to me. I get mad SOI's from moderately good looking 30+ year old women regularly when I go out and it is bothering me. First of all I feel like it is too easy, and these women are throwing themselves on me basically. Secondly they are much older than I am (I am 20), and it feels weird to go home with a woman who is nearing twice my age.

I have never been with a cougar, but according to friends they are supposedly much better in bed than girls my age. I am not sure what it is, but in clubs I guess I exude sexuality and confidence, which is why women come up to me and grab my crotch, whisper in my ear, and offer a ride to their place. I know it does nothing for self improvement and comes without any work, but sometimes you just want to get laid, ya know?

If anyone has had experience with cougars and would like to encourage or discourage sexual interaction, please let me know.

Ive had only good experiences with cougars, but be weary of the ones that come with no work at all. Imagine that they do it every night and they go home with someone because they are so straight forward.

So a cougar is an old lady? To each his own. If Grandma revs up your battery I guess you should tap that azz. In my case, I have been with 17 girls and they were all virgins. Girls are ruined once they sleep with a guy.

Is that true or is that just your Islam fantasy? (lol cuz that's their idea of heaven, no offense to the religion itself).

But listen, I had a regular F-buddy who was 5 years older than me, (I'm 22, she's 27). It's not a huge difference, but I feel like it's on the same page. And yes, older women will spoil you, like this one did to me. They're aggressive, not afraid to go after what they want, and to fulfill whatever fantasies they have. And this girl was eager to please! (Blow jobs all the time, and she licked my balls just the way I like it).

I think that older women have stronger sexual desires, less friends to judge them as sluts, and the same insecurities as younger ones, and they fell better about themselves when they sleep with younger, hot guys.

I can't promise your experience will be the same, but I'd say, if you're attracted to them, then go for it! But don't just go through with it because you think they may be awesome in bed. Check out the body, and if you really do feel the attraction, then who the hell cares about her age!

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I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MYSELF.
I MOVE THROUGH THE WORLD WITHOUT APOLOGY." - Ross Jefferies

there is much wisdom that a older woman can teach you about how to make sexy time.. When i was a freshmen in college i got cought up with an older woman and she tought me things i would have never in a million billion year thought of on my own

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If you are attracted... GO FOR IT!

Age is definitely a plus. I've learnt a lot from older women and they got back the youthful energy lacking among men their age. win-win.
Just don't meet her kids and steer clear of her friends.

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1)HIT CLUB 2)??? 3)PROFIT!!

I think you're making a lot of judgements without having anything to base them upon. Stop judging them and yourself, or the situation. Who gives a shit about their age, or how "easy" it is?! If you're attracted and they're attracted, then roll with it!

If you're not attracted and don't want to do it, then stop driving yourself up the wall over it and allow it to empower you more! YOU said how much sexuality you exude! So claim it and use it all the time. It works on the younger ladies just as much as the older ones.

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~ Rye

My God, another horny little American boy. Don't worry, I don't date the American blobs.

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"I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESIRES AS A MAN.
I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MYSELF.
I MOVE THROUGH THE WORLD WITHOUT APOLOGY." - Ross Jefferies

Expat, don't let me catch you flaming other members again, or I'll make it an official warning. This goes for everyone on the forum:

If someone disagrees with your beliefs and does it in a respectful way without insulting and degrading you, then either present your opinion back in the same respectful fashion, or don't say anything at all. This forum does NOT condone flaming.

It's especially reprehensible, when you are riffing on a guy for enjoying amazing sex, when you're bragging about how many virgins you have slept with and then thrown away. Girls don't suddenly become useless after they've slept with someone else. Perhaps it is your perference that they haven't had sex with anyone else, but don't force your beliefs upon other people; that's not what this forum is about, it's about discussion and equality; sharing beliefs.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

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damn straight man i back you up entirely there

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cheers
PJ

38 year old, fake boobed, sex machine! That sums up my experience with a cougar. Other than the "squriting orgasm" thing...wow did that take getting used too. With cougars...they are, in my experience "easier to game" but that is because they have been around for a while and know what your conveying and can pick up on your game quicker then younger women....so they just cut to the chase. And beware...there are ones who are married and will hide this...just be careful.
Oh, another fucked up thing....I am 23, when we would have sex...she would say "fuck me baby boy"....damn...kinda wierd, but she blew my world wide open as far as sex goes, and I'm sure mose who have experienced a cougar will tell you the same thing. Good topic. Kompai.
Havok
"he who hesitates, masterbates"

I was in a LTR for two years with a woman 14 years my senior. She was thin with big fake boobs, was very pretty and looked about 8-10 years younger than she really was. She was by far the best sex I've ever had and I've had a good amount. I highly recommend them.

As for Expat, I guess I'm on the other side of the fence on that one. I prefer a girl who has a lot of experience and knows what she's doing. I don't let amateurs service my car, play on my team or touch my good bits.

Sounds like the dude could use a therapist or two or three or four...