Hey Guys
Long story short, just starting in the pua world, Managed to get the green light with an opener,

The situation is that she will be meeting up with me for a game of like improvised soccer(tried to be original)at a lookout. Shes bringing a friend as it will be the first time we will meet in ages (since highschool)

Just looking for some advice on creating comfort (so i dont blow it totally)
Ive been playing the cocky-funny so far.


Cheers Guys

AFC

comfort is just about not doing anything wrong. dont ask too many questions or questions that she wont be able to answer well, dont be overly sarcastic or satirical because it might go over her head leading to an 'akward moment' situation.

stick to the script, be a cool guy and let some character come through. make her laugh and take a different opinion on something small, like whose going to win the game - alittle fun disagreement is great for showing her your an independent thinker and wont just nod at everything she says.

cheers, gl

Thanks Mate:)

i read the game when i started. i took a girl round by some pool tables made her take my hands and did the cube on her... she looked freaked out! didnt stop her coming back to me a year later and seeing me for 6 months but the old canned routines from yesteryear dont work, theyre a little out of the norm.
my next attempt i forgot all that stuff chatted on the dance floor after bumping into a girl, dhv spiked, got her msn and then said why dont you come find me later. 20 minutes later she came running up to me with a huge smile like a school girl and grabed my shoulder. i kept leaving her too, she eventually said dont you like me? and i said no i want to see you again... gave her a zippo and said i want that back and walked away.

both times were f-closed but i think the second one was less painful and more natural. just forget routines and get it more off the cuff.

you've basically already got a date. She likes you. You can relax and be comfortable being you. Theres nothing more comfortable than someone who is comfortable with themself

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hey guys my post went to the wrong thread lol duno how that happened. but its cool cos iv got a friend in the same situation as you majoraman. my mates (his SPAM) were teasing him about two women hes stuck on and i joined in as you do but after thoughly pissing him off we got talking about this girl hes not seen since highschool and even then it was glancing. same case, its a garunteed lay, like you say play it cool. maybe get mates around to make it less pressuring. you dont even need game for this one!