Kino kino kino.

I remember reading in a magazine several years ago that Europeans get laid much more often than Americans do. The reason being is because how people greet each other. In many countries it is custom to kiss on the cheek when you first meet someone. In the USA, its generally a handshake and a hug or just a wave of the hand. Some areas of the country you can get away with the kiss. It is a completely different level of comfort of personal space here in the USA.

So the goal should be to break that kino barrier ASAP when first meeting a woman. I know your saying, "Yeah, Chino like that is news. " What I am getting at is add as much kino to your introduction as you can. Hugs, handshakes with your left hand on her shoulder or elbow. Whatever... Just do it. Use both hands, thats what they are there for.

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Chino's 100% on that one.

Prolly my imagination but European women are more open to kino. During my sarge nights in backpacker bars and pubs, I use kino to show interest in their necklaces and bracelets bought during their travels.

But never understimate the power of a handshake - alot of good kino stems from the unexpected: a handshake, showing an HB a photo on your camera (which is exactly what happened in the office with the new girl today) and all that.

well i'm from england and we defiantly don't kiss when we meet girls and it would be a mistake to shake her hand - shaking hands is what friends or colleagues do and i don't want her to think of me as either, im a predator, i want her to know it ( but of course sometimes it would be rude not to shake someone hand, it depends on the situation)

But back to the point, do Europeans really get laid more than Americans?

i think its possibly easier in england because 1: we drink more 2:theres less social taboos, ie mainly people are less religious,

maybe i'm wrong i don't have a lot of experience of the US?

and as for your experience of backpacking bars, everyone's more promiscuous on holiday, its like a micro-society where everyones got something in common and nothing better to do with their time than 'meet' interesting people

Europeans are more open about sex in general so it makes sense they will have it more than us Americans.

England isnt really qualified as a part of europe in this context. Yes women are easier becasue sex/nudity and almost everything else is muich more acceptable and that is the only reason.

In Czech (where im from) public pools have conjoined change rooms and you know how some public pools in north america have those little cubbies for those ultra shy people? yah well this is a large rectangular room with lockers along the walls thats it.

It has nothing to do with kino or even alcohol, its just the society in europe is as screwed up as north american society. i mknow saying all this wont make me any friends but i think i have to give you guys some real perspective.

I now live in canada sorry if it wasnt clear in the original post.

I'm from the Netherlands and although we do kiss sometimes on the cheek (in Holland it's three times instead of two like most countries) most greetings with strangers aren't with a kiss. You can get away with it though.

What I really like to do is to grab the girls hand and initiate to do a hand kiss, which is the corniest thing ever to do, and right before your lips touches her hand you twist her hand and kiss your own hand. It's different, it's really funny and she'll remember it.

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Here is an absolutely brilliant and RIGHT quote in Time.
http://www.time.com/time/magazine/artic ... -2,00.html

Today the average informed American views Europe as a wealthy, technologically advanced, comfortable and somewhat expensive society that has somehow learned how to get the most out of life without sacrificing its values. There is still a lingering sense of romance in the American view of Europe, and a frequent notion that somehow the Europeans are less hysterical about sex; but the notion of European sexual wickedness compared to American purity is fading with the consciousness that most European countries are, in fact, far less "permissive" than the U.S. today.

Sorry to spoil your dreams. Now, I have been living in a post-Soviet town for most of the last three years. Let me just say that things are different when you have the right colored passport in some parts of Europe [Edited by Rye Lee for being offensive and ignorant]

You expect people to take you seriously and read your post after flaming and insulting them? Learn some manners and etiquette please, or just leave.

Uh, sorry...but [Edited by Rye Lee for being offensive and ignorant]

What is also insulting is hearing [Edited by Rye Lee for being offensive and ignorant] talk about all the "hot" chicks they see in America. I am American and I see nothing hot about girls there. NOTHING. How could I. They are mostly overweight, loud, and wear flip-flops all day. Not really sexy. Ask one man. Aski ONE man who has ever been to Ukraine, Latvia, or Estonia what he thinks about American girls now. Just go ask him. ASK HIM!!! Game, Set, and Match. You will see they echo EVERY comment I have made. Now run along and spend thousands on trying to pickup some "earthy" Vancouver chick.

What is insulting is reading the rantings of an Ex-pat who probably lived in some back hills of Kentucky pretending he knows everything about America. Not sure about the source of your anger towards the home bred fat chicks of America but remember, your mother was once a fat American chick. Show some respect. . .

Having said that. . . Eastern Europeans are hot and great to look at. And yeah, it's a bit off a stereotype but they really do carry this "cool" attitude. Personally, I'm a big fan . . .

Back to the OP:

Guys . . . it's only perception but remember, perception is more powerful than reality. You BELIEVE that Europeans are more open to kino so you go for it . . . and it works!

I'm Asian, but I sometimes tell American girls that I'm Italian with 100% confidence. Here's the funny thing. Half the time, they just go, "Oh that's so cool . . " Sometimes they go, "Really???" . . ." I answer with a straight face, "Yeah, really." A # close and bye bye's are always combined with the hug and a peck on the cheek. Guys, girls love this stuff. Just do it.

Now what's your perception of Asian girls in Asia? I bet many of you think that they are even less open to kino than Americans. This is just a cultural front. You open, make them laugh, trigger some sexual thoughts, and it's the same game. Put out your right hand like you're going to shake hands but you put it out in front of her left hand. They'll offer the left hand palm facing down. Do the same with your left hand and she'll give you her right hand. Now, you're holding two hands. Women like this crap a whole lot better than some business handshake.

Kiss on the cheek? Motion her to come closer and tell her you have a secret. "I really love the french fries at ____ cafe." (Sneak a quick peck on the cheek) Most times they just giggle . . . Sometimes they look totally confused. So you just tell her your secret one more time . . .

Wow where is all the anger and hate coming from? Aren't we here to help people? Flaming posts is so stupid it doesn't accomplish anything at all except make people distant from you.

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I posted this because I love how eclectic this board is. I wanted to know the truth. I am glad to see conversations spark like this.

There is really no need for the hate expat. Seriously. I completely respect your opinion, and am happy that you brought a European perspective to the thread. Next time, leave the insulting comments and negativity out of the thread, or you can just fuck off. Your choice really.

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Alright everyone, Expat has been warned, let's leave it at that. If there are any further offensive posts from him, please PM me with a link to the thread immediately and it will be dealt with. The mods are here to make this forum a better place for all of us, but we can't do anything if we're not informed. It isn't your responsibility to have to deal with people like that, it's ours.


As far as the subject is concerned, I have to say I too was of the impression that Europeans got a lot more sex. I found that this is a somewhat confusing statistic, because although they may have higher rates when polled, pretty much every European I have ever met has spoken of the contrary. North Americans are always talking about how much sex we have, but we rate lower when polled. Bah, polls are dumb I say and a lot of people are just trying to look cool.

I was just at a Poweful Sexual Presence/Tantra workshop run by Sean Messenger and Lucy Becker and there were several Europeans/people immigrated from Europe. They weren't there cause they were sexually satisfied that's for sure. They were craving more sex, just like the Canadians and Americans there. It was very enlightening I found. Turns out that there is a lot less freedom of expression in that area than we tend to think.

Personally I think the whole world just isn't having enough sex. Latinos are always viewed as having sex all the time, as are Italians, yet I've never met one that didn't wish they were getting more. More sex! All the time!

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