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| Karma10 | PostPosted: Fri Oct 17, 2008 6:18 am | |
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Posts: 44 | | What do you guys feel about saying Excuse Me during the opener? I sometimes do it out of nervousness, is it something I should work on not doing?
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| officedog | PostPosted: Fri Oct 17, 2008 8:05 am | |
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Posts: 12 | | to me, it sounds like you are apologising already. It is not something to apologise for, you are about to enter her life and she should be thanking you. I assume that you have something to follow up after the excuse me part. If not, you need something;
"excuse me, i was wondering what you thought of.."
drop the 'excuse me', and just add hey or hello;
"hey, I was wondering what you thought of.."
As long as you are still talking to her in a calm, confident manner, the 'excuse me' is not required.
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| Jaybot | PostPosted: Fri Oct 17, 2008 2:03 pm | |
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Location: UK | | I have tried to cut it out entirely, it sounds like you are apologizing. It's something I used to do every time, along with sorry. It makes you seem like you lack confidence, assume they are interested in what you have to say.
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