Dear CPT,

Glad you enjoyed the seminar

heya man,

\It seems like you're doing really well. Speeding up doesn't really happen. the harder you work the more you get out of it, things that may help (and I'm not really reccomending them as they really do alter who you are)

Change your social group, only hang around with hot women. (this way girls will be happy meeting with you more often as they see others doing it)

Your jamba juice thing is a great low stress way of meeting a girl, another would be happy hour on a regular day every week so it's a continuous invite that you can re-invite them to. If you get regular girls going to this they may hear how much fun it is through the girls and then be more likely to attend.

Transitioning form the day to a night setting is best done over time. Star tduring the day...as time goes on go for food, buy a movie and end up at your place to watch it...easy peasy.

I hope this helps man.

FYI I don't drink either.

I promise it doesn't change anythying. I always get non alcoholic cocktails...and they taste better!

AFC Adam,

Hey Adam,

Ok I have an easy one for you this time! I know you love the idea of entourage game and are an expert at that so....

Obviously I am a girl. I just moved to Washington DC and I naturally make friends with guys quicker than girls. So consequently I go out with groups of guys. Is this good for entourage game or should I get a mix of guys and girls?

Thanks Adam!

~B

ok im back. a few questions
1: how do i say no to giving a girl my number without being an asshole
2: how to stop at kissing, as in i got a text a few mins after she left with 'why didnt you walk me home?'
3: what would be the best way to sublty not continue, as in day 2 (im 18 she is late 20's, we are very different people personality aswell). i dont want to just not text as i dont want to be another ***hole

i hope you understand these and thanks for the future input

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Hey AFC Adam, I got to ask you something. I'm thinking that maybe you can relate.

I have always been friends with girls throughout my life. Maybe it's because I've been raised by a family of women, who knows, I always gotten along with females.

People often ask me "Are you hitting that?" because they see me bond with them. I tell them honestly no and I always sense losing points with guys and I think it's affecting me right now with girls as well.

One of my best friends is a girl. I have traveled with her and we watch movies and hang out all the time. We're very affectionate with each other but we never tried to kiss. I'm attracted to her and I think at one point she was attracted to me, but we have been friends for so long now that I think it's silly to hook up.

This is the thing though, since we're so affectionate (because I love hugging her) people often think we're going out. I think people often think we're going out as well because we would look like a cute couple. We got the same hair color, almost same height, and same style... you know elements that make a cute couple... cute.

I think this is helping my social status and yet ruining my game with girls at the same time. I don't want people to think I'm dating her but I don't want to stop being affectionate at the same time. I dunno, it doesn't seem natural for me to stop. I'm overall an affectionate person. Girls love my hugs but my hugs are more heart-warming and friendly than a "I'm into you" kind of hug (You get me?).

What can I do for people to get the hint that we're just friends?

I've gotten insecure lately with being friends with females. I never was before but lately it's been picking my brain. I'm not sure if it's a good thing to have so many female friends. I'm thinking that potential hook-ups will lose attraction towards me because I'm so friendly with them. Some girls open up to me easier because they see me around beautiful girls but it ends up going nowhere. Can you tell me what I'm doing wrong and your opinion on this?


I also have another question but this one is a lot shorter . Do you at times lie when you're talking to a girl as part of the game? I.E "I'll call you tomorrow." and then you don't like a false hope or tease?

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Thanks for the info, helped big time....

I have a couple more questions for you, but I'll wait for this thread to die down a bit. looks like you have a shitload on your plate right now haha

Hey Adam.

I posted this in the general PUA Lounge but I want your specific input on this. This was a bigtime low blow for me and I'm just shocked man. Read below and help me out bro!

I went to my buddy's hometown with him to wing for him with this HB he met a few months back. We met up with her and her roomate. She wasn't as hot as I'd expected. I'd honestly rate her a 5 at best. Her roomate at first didn't look good at all. I thought she was a 5 also. But she took a shower and cleaned up a bit. It definately helped her out. She became a 6.5-7.0

Regardless I wasn't at all intimidated by these women and I knew that i was in a position of power and value based on the kind of women i usually game. I talked to my buddy a while in private and menitoned that i wouldnt mind hooking up with the HB7.

I did everything right - or so i thought. I was really confident, I negged just at the right moments and I even used kino when appropriate. I've been doing this with HBs in college for the past 6 weeks and its been working like a charm!

The buddy i was winging for is new to the game. The whole way over to his house (3 hours) he was asking my advice on game related stuff. He looked up to me quite a bit on this stuff. I thought tonight would be my chance to demonstrate my skills to him. He was doing great. I was pretty impressed. Earlier in the night we had gone to a coffee place and i gamed the girl working there pretty well so i was definately in the right frame.

The first hour or so went pretty well. I felt like the 2 targets were feeling me - even though i wasn't that interested. After that we went to the beach to start a bon fire and light some fireworks. I got a little frustrated that we couldnt start a fire and i didn't understand why the hb7 was going for my buddy not me! after hanging there for a while i really felt like both the targets were ignoring me.

Later we went back to thier house. we sat down. me, hb5, buddy, hb7. I purposely sat by the 5 to make the 7 jealous. These chicks completely shut me out!!! Thier bodies were turned away from me and toward my buddy. It didn't make any sense. I was doing everything right. I was doing everything that's worked for me with hotter women and these women that i was only marginally interestd in were shutting me out. It totally made me look bad. What made me even more upset was that my buddy that's a relative rookie was doing so well. I couldn't even say they were bitches. They were feeling him really well.

This totally shook my foundation and confidence in my game theory and in myself. I've been number closing HBs left and right and now when it comes down to it a couple low profile nothings have completely robbed me of my power. What's going on??

How do i recover from this??

Does anyone have any similar stories?

I've never been so demoralized. I thought my game was solid!

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dear adam,

where do i begin..well girl in my school, a constant flirt, a virgin trying to lose it. flirting with me alot actually. the only thing is shes a sarcastic flirt, and a wannabe slut basically. she'll say things like "lets fuck, rlouisj7" or "lets makeout" in a sarcastic/serious way. she knows i would, but i know that shes just saying things. my thing is, when she says these things i never know how to act or what to say. on the one hand, if i say great lets do it, she'd shoot me down because i took her bait. on the other hand i dont want to be so stand offish that shell think i'm uninterested. shes trying to lose her virginity but i think shes hesitant 2 f-close me because i went out with her close friend for a year and a half, but that was months ago and everyone is over it. so how do i react when she says things like this?

Now then Adam, how's things? I've a few questions for you mate.

Firstly, are workshops/seminars/bootcamps worth it? I ask because i can attract women to a point naturally, but i don't actively 'game' them. Can't say i've ever been on a real date with a girl due to me not bringing it up.

This is where i fall down, and maybe i'm being irrational when i say this, but i don't want to be that guy who tries it on with women, gets a few laughs but has the girls rolling their eyes saying 'HELP!' So i guess the second question is how would be the best way of getting around this?

Lastly, when i go out drinking with my regular group, it's difficult. They're all pretty alpha, and in a club it's quite difficult to game for me without me thinking i'm coming across as a lecherous tool.

So yeah i think i need to work on my inner game...

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Hey Adam. I have decided to direct my question at you because i sense a certain integrity from what i have heard about you and seen in your videos.

Does everyone progress to a standard where they have over a 90 percent success rate with women, or is this just what we are led to think so that we put our money into products and bootcamps?

Thanks.

AFC ADAM!

Hey, man, I've been WAITING for a LONG time to talk to you! Just recently,
i saw you on Rules of Seduction (TV documentary) and I must admit...the way
you held your frame with the Cheerleader girlfriend...BRILLIANT! hahaha.

Alright, enough of that...hahah

my questions is this...

What do you think about girls with boyfriends? One of the girls im currently
seeing has been dating a guy for 9 months and she says that she "loves"
but isn't "IN love." So I dont know how to take this. Her boyfriend is about
2 hours away; we are both in college.

(in all fairness...she's a pretty good looking girl. Blond, hazel eyes, nice
body. I'd say she's about a 9.0)

So basically, it comes down to ethicality; would you, or would you not
break up that relationship?

If I really wanted to, I could lay her in a day...but the ONLY thing holding
me back is the guilt I might feel after they break up...

What's your take on this?

(P.S. I'm not only trying to have sex with her. I actually do like this girl,
and she seems like she's a good match for me. I want to see where we
could go--maybe an LTR? who knows).
thanks, bud.

Hey man, thanks for all the help so far it's been great I just have a few questions I was hoping you could help out with though.

In response to a question from Jsquared earlier in this thread, when he asked about the 10 most important things to keep in mind when gaming, one of your list was to "turn her on". I know that this should be a fairly obvious cornerstone of pick-up but it's not something I know much about. By doing the usual attraction building stuff (demonstration of leadership qualities, social proof etc) you can make a girl attracted to you but how do you actually turn her on? Get the interaction moving in a sexual direction? Do you create and build sexual tension and if so how? Or do you have other ways? I can personally get some pretty good kino going (playful hitting, tickling, that kind of thing) but I find it hard making things any more obviously sexual and turning her on.

Sorry about the long winded post, I'm just trying to fully get my head around this. Thanks for any help you can give

hey there bro
here's what i wanna know..i met a cutie on a trip, she was with her friends and so was i...i noticed that she was making eye contact and peeking when i "wasnt looking" anw, i teased her alot (cocky funny)..
we talked all the way back, i guess we're at C1..you know, we got to know each other more..anw, she mentioned that she had some problems with her ex..(now she said ex, while her friends said boyfriend..is that a hint from her(?))
she then told me that she was in a fairly long relation with him, but they had a "huge fight" a couple of weeks ago and that they're not "officialy together" but they are still trying to work on it..
now i dont wanna be the rebound guy, and on the other hand (there's different fingers:P) i dont wanna get stuck in the friend zone by being there for her all the time...how do i go abt that my friend..?

thanks for your advice bro, take it easy

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H. Ford

Why not both?

After all, incest is a game the whole family can enjoy!

Johnny Soporno
Jus' Foolin'

Heya Bonita,

Oh man this is awesome for entourage game. the more guys the more you're preselected...however I would say it's important to have a few girls just so you don't look too unobtainable.

Hope this helps,

AFC Adam,

Dear MattJacks,

1: how do i say no to giving a girl my number without being an asshole?
Why not give your number? You don't have to sleep with her? Add a friend to your life.

2: how to stop at kissing, as in i got a text a few mins after she left with 'why didnt you walk me home?'
Hmm...Why would you want to stop at kissing? If you really do want to I'd have a reason for not hanging out with her. Just walking off after kissing or not having a good reason to leave her alone is kinda just poor show.

3: what would be the best way to sublty not continue, as in day 2 (im 18 she is late 20's, we are very different people personality aswell). i dont want to just not text as i dont want to be another ***hole
Tell her your fears. In almost any situation being honest and truthful is best.

Hope these help bro.

AFC Adam,