OK.. First time post..

I have been going to this yoga class for months now. Imagine a room filled with the hottest HB's you have ever seen.. Doing yoga positions.. You get the point.

Anyway, this one particular girl always gave me IOI's. Would sometimes flirt with me, sometimes not. But one time when I was talking to another HB before class -- she put her mat down beside me in a loud way and made it a point to talk to me and distract me from the other girl.

Finally I asked for her number. She gave it to me. I sent her a text that basically said "Let's have a drink sometime what's your schedule like"

Anyway, she pretty much ignored me for about three weeks after that. It was like I offended her somehow.

Long story short, I randomly bumped into her in a bar. She was with her cousin. Even the cousin told me she really needed a Boyfriend..

Needless to say, we totally hit it off. Major attraction. The cousin left us alone to talk.. But she was completely sloshed... Like beyond sloshed.. Mind you, nothing happened in the bar -- we just stared lovingly into each others eyes.... And made small talk...

Then something strange happened. The cousin came back and said there was this weird guy he was talking to... So she got up, and said she was going to go "mess" with the weird guy. Then she ended up flirting with another guy for about 15 minutes while I talked to the cousin.

At the end of the evening I got a big huge hug goodbye from her.. But that was that..

I waited two days, called her and left her a message asking her if she wanted to go out more formerly this time. And, I think I made a serious mistake.. I don't expect her to call back.

Please advise..

Like your subject says the girl didnt call back. Thats the end of it. I mean theres either two situation A, you call her again, or B like you said there is a room full of HB, screw this one. Why should this be the only lucky girl to be with you, because she threw at you a couple of IOI's and now your zoned in on it. Get your focus back, think beyond the situation and just start talking to some other HB in your yoga class.

Remember she lost the oppurtunity to be WITH YOU. It is HER LOSS to not get to go out WITH YOU. Your too busy to be chasing girls your not 16 so dont act like a 16 year old.

Your a solider out there to kill, so start acting like one.

Thanks.. I think you summed it up. Problem is I like her, that's why I'm zoned in -- she's a good girl. But you're right... Will try and follow your advice!

Gotta remember to be a soldier!

My 2 cents, you moved too slow. It sounds like you had the attraction going, you should have moved into serious Kino and moved her to a different location and K-Closed her on that night.
I agree with the other post, remember you're the Prize and too bad for her, she lost her shot at you.

I agree with neo on the slow part. You said that she was in your yoga class, perfect chance to make her jelous as well as open new relationships by talking to the other HBs. (and you just might get a text back). I have been in situations where girls ignore me for 3week-3month period time then come back with a text - "what you been up too"