Tell me what you guys think, I'm still pretty new so any criticism is appreciated.

Aura: Hey let me ask you guys/girls a quick question. Is it normal for a girl to shake while she's having sex or is she having an orgasm?

I think it works on a few levels first of all it's pretty indirect, it can work as a kind of false disqualify because they think you're talking about yourself and that girl you were having sex with, it works as a DHV because obviously you're having sex and you have the power to give orgasms because obviously it's not normal for girls to shake while having sex unless they're having a seizure lol. I think the only downfall to this opener in my opinion is that it's kind of high risk and it may actually DLV because they might think you're sexually inexperienced because you have to ask.

Oh, and I used this on 2 of my real friends, old friends but still friends. One was a virgin so she didn't know.....lol there was an awkward silence for awhile but, I managed to divert the situation. The other took awhile to respond but than asked me if the shake was more of a twitch blah blah blah, different scenarios will play out after a few more routines after the initial opener one responded with a few subtle IOIs and asked me "So....you have a girlfriend now?" real curiously. So voila, I'm gonna try it out a bit more and update, if you guys want please by all means use it and tell us what happened.

Anyways there it is tell me what you think.

I have never tried it, so I can't give any feedback, but this seems like a classic case of high risk, high reward ...

Hey man, just joined and this is post one, so feel free to hit me with criticism if it's deserved, but I think I've got an idea to make this opener a little stronger.

The potential for her to think you're inexperienced is a huge downer to me, I'd never want to use a line the implied I can't tell when a girl's reached orgasm. A simple switch could turn that potential DLV into a good DHV.

Instead of asking if shaking during sex is normal or if she's having an orgasm, ask if it's normal to shake alot during an orgasm. (Or any other descriptor that sounds like your girl came fairly intensely.)

Now it's a pretty solid opener. We've got several DHVs (preselection, showing you're good in bed) a potential false disqualifier (she may assume it's your gf and you're taken) and because it's interesting enough to general get an answer, you've already got the conversation on a sexual topic.

If you get lucky, you could get a girl saying something like "well I always _____ when I have an orgasm." Screaming neg opportunity! Follow up with "oh, that's weird." Or something of the like.

Anyway, i think that makes the opener alot stronger and lower-risk. Helpful or am I off-base here?

I agree with Charlatan. Using his version will get better results, although.. i think this opener..shouldn't really be an opener.... better to use it as a thread after you have some comfort built... if a hot girl walked up to me and asked whether it's normal for guys to spasm while they nut "crazy girl" would cross my mind 100% of the time... not to say id cut her off for that.. but it just screams.. "Wierdo!"

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Im gonna agree with the high risk/high reward factor

I think that this would be too forward in some cases, because you have not built rappor with the girls and they see this as "wow this guys gonna a hardcore question"

id say field test it to see what responses you get it, personally, i would not open with something so forward unless i personally know one girl in the set, cause then i know she would back me up

good luck bro

anthony

This is even better
"is it normal when you have sex to have to be held down because of how much you squirm"