Ive posted once before here and since then i have tried several different things to improve my skills. Ive read or listened to pretty much everything i can get my hands on, at this point ive read and listened to a million different things and has left me completely confused as to the step by step process as everyone offering information is different in some way.

I tried a some of what i learnt on a younger girl and managed to attract her but not entirely keep her attracted to me and ended on a mutual note as i recognised the demise of the relationship. It still is weighing on me i think you guys call it one itis.

What have the new guys done in the past, to achieve different stages, i recognise that its our choice who we let into our lives and am having difficulty in realising what technique or routine to use.
Is anyone from west oz, does anyone go out and help each other out, and guide newbies through the steps.

What would you suggest in this situation.