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 Post subject: What about never sms?
PostPosted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 9:56 pm 
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I read that it's not recommended to sms a girl.

When can I start smsing a woman?

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 11:22 pm 
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I read that it's not recommended to sms a girl.

When can I start smsing a woman?
The same night you get her number.

I like to text her while she's right next to me, and use C&F and say something
like "Hey...stop checking out my ass :)"


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 Post subject: never ever
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i would never use the word "ass" when trying to seduce a woman

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 Post subject: Re: First call
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When I take the phone, I say "I'll call you, ok?"
You ask her if you can call? If she has already given you her phone number than she has already said yes. You do not have to ask again. (You should not ask in the first place)

How long you wait is not as important as what you say when you get them on the phone.

Do not sit there on the phone lingering without anything to say. If a story happens, then go with it. Otherwise be quick about it.
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I read that it's not recommended to sms a girl.
When can I start smsing a woman?
Your first interaction with a girl on the phone should not be a text message. If it doesn't happen that way ( I also generally text them after I get the phone number (instead of calling them to give them your phone number, I send (Hi, it is your prince charming) or something like that. You should not ask a girl out via text message. It can give her the impression that you are scared to ask them out talking to them.

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 Post subject: Re: never ever
PostPosted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 11:25 pm 
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i would never use the word "ass" when trying to seduce a woman
Mystery purposely swears in his sets so that he can lighten up the mood
a little bit. He once told a story in which he was trying to relate to the audience.

He was doing a show for thirteen year olds, and he came out by talking and
said the word "bullshit" and that related each other. So swearing is fine as long
as you don't over do it.

As a matter of fact, I recall him OPENING a set by saying:
"I never bothered to ask...until this moment...why...is everyone...wearing
FUCKING white?"

And he ended up isolating the target from that set.


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Why didn't you try to get her back to your place if the date went as well as you said it did. Did you get an IOIs, if so you should have been making a porn with her that night. I'm lost, and what's with this myth about having to wait at all to call a chick. If she is feeling you, you shouldn't have a waiting rule and if she isn't feeling you, you can wait a year and SHE STILL ISN'T GONNA BE FEELING YOU. I'm just talking from my experiences.

I met a chick the other night at Buffalo Wild Wings, she was eye fucking the hell out of me at the bar so I brandished the million dollar smile back at her then turned back to my Newcastle. Finished my beer then headed to the take out counter and observed...I still caught her eye-fucking me so I told the girl taking care of my order not to bring my food out until I requested it (i.e. after I laid game to this dame I'm trying to lay) So I see her and her friend grab their things and they are on their way out and they had to walk by me to leave so I was set up nice. I didn't open with anything cosmic, just a "Leaving so soon"? Boom! GAMETIME. I immediately negged her and changed my posture to pay attention to the friend who wasnt even cute, but she was really sweet so it made it easy. Paid the target very little attention, (and if you're keeping score I alrdy let her know I was interested...remember I brandished the smile back at her) yada yada yada gave her the 5 question game, which she failed miserably but thought it was funny, long story short (because I'm getting tired of typing) she wrote her number on a napkin and I hit her up the next day because I wanted to fuck her, which I did...I hate waiting especially if you closed PROPERLY THE FIRST TIME. When I get numbers I make sure that's it's not wood, I make sure it's because they want to hook up and fuck whenever I call them, it could be five minutes, five days or five years after the fact....IT DOESN'T MATTER. don't get hung up on the time thing, you're only depriving your own cock.


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 19, 2008 11:16 pm 
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If you had fun, you can call the next day.

Just don't ask her out again on that call and you're good.

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Well there is two times to call her. Either the day right after or 4 days. It is a proven fact that girls like to be called on the 4th day. I don't believe it either but a woman did a study and asked women whats the best day to call. Alot of women said on the 4th day.

Me personally. I call like a hour after the date.

One to let her know I had a good time.

Two to make sure she made it home safe. Girls really loved that and since I called then I can call anytime I have time.

Usually before calling a girl I send a couple of txts. Make sure she is not to busy and to get her in the talking move.

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if you think the date went great and the feeling is mutual - shes not likely to forget you if you leave it a few days. i would say about 4 - as where if it was a rubbish one then 2. if she rings you then great your sorted.
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I think tuesday evening would do it...

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48 hours seems goood but not tooo long either


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 2:46 am 
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48 hours seems goood but not tooo long either
If you know she's going to flake, give it some time...otherwise, call the
VERY NEXT DAY.


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for me it would be two - 4 days


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 11, 2008 6:13 pm 
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for me it would be two - 4 days
Why??

She's just going to meet 12 other guys within that time, and
go on like 4 other dates by the time you call her. Chances are
she's going to flake if u wait that long.

But hey, if it works for you, go for it.


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 14, 2008 12:01 am 
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+1 for the next day...

Don't say you had fun with her. Just tell her she is fun and that you guys are GOING to hang out again.

Make sure to keep it short. Only 1 text or short phone call. You're a busy guy and have more important things to attend to.

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