Hey guys, although I am just starting out, I think that structured game is really important for beginners because it sort of provides a way for one to go into a set already having rehearsed everything. This really helps build confidence and allows one to actually confidently approach a set. As time goes on though, the confidence and attitude that are used during structured game should be applied to natural game. In the end, I think that routines and patters are just crutches and one must truly come up with original material to be congruent fully with who that person is.

Natural game baby!!

why?

spontanous, authentic, effective, no elephant memory needed to remember routines, you don't have to lie or remember lies,

and many many more...

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Okay, most may know already that Niel Strauss wrote two other books. One was a diary, little black book I haven't read yet. The other, a little white book called "Master the Game in 30 days" did wonders for the specific areas of approach anxiety I did have. It's a day by day exercise/journal you follow and keep. Did wonders for me. So if you still have those areas that need work in the approach I strongly suggest those. (its a set, you will get both in a little black box) As far as the city specific forums, my buddy knows a guy who runs a forum here in SD, but I cant say for sure every major city has one. Best bet is to search online or ask a PUA buddy you know locally if they know of any. Thats how I found out.

Good luck and good sarging.

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Thanks for the heads up, I will check those books out.