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PostPosted: Sat Dec 08, 2007 7:16 am 
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Well nothing is fool proof, but I did something today on this HB 9.5 who wants nothing to do with me sexually but is good to practice shit on anyways. I got a pretty good vibe from it. Don't pay so much attention to what I said, pay attention to the idea and sub-context behind it.

Me: I have officially hit the big times

Her: And why's that

Me: I would like to thank the academy and everyone who believed in me through all these years

Her: What? What happened?

Me: You might want to sit down for this one. I just got... and fast-lane transponder

Her: You are something else, one in a million

Granted she is just a friend, I think if this type of mentality is used with text messages then it can work. Lately ive been answering any questions they ask, but only vaguely. Then I will just talk about a completely irrelevant absurd subject. I think it works as a false disqualifier and it can be funny if done correctly.

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I usually text once or twice then onto phone conversation, don't like sticking just text as they can add up to be an expensive play.


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haha I like the idea of getting in a competition over who always has to have the last word with both of you struggling all day to win. Sounds like fun. maybe hah
Be aware, you're battery will take a hit and your texts/month will go waaay up. Luckily, we are both IN. Since Verizon owns around here, everyone is in.

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I did this one time and she responded with, "What the heck?"

What would be the best response for this?? I was thinking just to ignore it and let her wonder about it, but just the way she responded makes me think I just DLV'd or something. Advice?
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I did this one time and she responded with, "What the heck?"

What would be the best response for this?? I was thinking just to ignore it and let her wonder about it, but just the way she responded makes me think I just DLV'd or something. Advice?
You could reply innocently what? If she says something about it, tell her you don't have to make up ridiculous stories to talk to me.
That's a pretty good response, but I think that ignoring it might be better. This is because if she responds to you, you have already achieved your purpose, which was to get her thinking of you. To respond at all removes some of the mystery; she won't have to wonder what you meant by the blank text. However, Sinner's response is still leaves the blank text a mystery, so it really just depends on whether or not you want to talk to her afterwards or just let her imagination run wild. Personally, I like to make them wonder :)


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I've had some bad experience with girls and sending blank txt, sometimes the phone wont even accept them if they are blank.
I find it hard to break the one im trying to sarge on the phone now.. i keep her wondering, but everytime i try to talk to her, it gets harder

I tend to stick to the material like,
Me: hey?!
hb: what?
me: I was just wondering when you were gonna get out of my mind...
or sumthing similar..

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ive used blank text before, works well. u have to have somekind of interest built up before hand since knowing them to make them respond. its like that stage where they enjoy getting texts from you and are slightly disapointed at a blank one.
also what works is cliff hanger statements, like some psychotic shit just happened here.. and drag out the reply text


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I've had some bad experience with girls and sending blank txt, sometimes the phone wont even accept them if they are blank.
I find it hard to break the one im trying to sarge on the phone now.. i keep her wondering, but everytime i try to talk to her, it gets harder

I tend to stick to the material like,
Me: hey?!
hb: what?
me: I was just wondering when you were gonna get out of my mind...
or sumthing similar..
that's a DLV, you're the prize not her. the more she realizes you're interested before she is, the harder it's gonna get for you to intrigue her.

Texts? I like to run Style's question game. It doesn't work as well through text since she can think over her reply. But the trick is, question three should be something that will make her laugh, so you can have another message in between #3 and #4. That way when you "lose track of the questions", you have a legit reason for it.

I tend to set-up for a neg when I'm starting a convo in text. For example:

me: hahahaha
her: what's so funny?
me: who needs a REASON to laugh?

it's an indirect neg, and you can reshape that a million ways.


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I've had some bad experience with girls and sending blank txt, sometimes the phone wont even accept them if they are blank.
I find it hard to break the one im trying to sarge on the phone now.. i keep her wondering, but everytime i try to talk to her, it gets harder

I tend to stick to the material like,
Me: hey?!
hb: what?
me: I was just wondering when you were gonna get out of my mind...
or sumthing similar..
that's a DLV, you're the prize not her. the more she realizes you're interested before she is, the harder it's gonna get for you to intrigue her.

Texts? I like to run Style's question game. It doesn't work as well through text since she can think over her reply. But the trick is, question three should be something that will make her laugh, so you can have another message in between #3 and #4. That way when you "lose track of the questions", you have a legit reason for it.

I tend to set-up for a neg when I'm starting a convo in text. For example:

me: hahahaha
her: what's so funny?
me: who needs a REASON to laugh?

it's an indirect neg, and you can reshape that a million ways.
I like the hahaha text, worked well for me. The blank text works sometimes, but you do definetly have to be on that level where they look forward to a text from you for it to work well usually.

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blank text? Common, that's basically saying "I have nothing to say/too nervous".

Show some balls, while remaining aloof:
For example, if a girls last name is Jones,

-Jones!

thats it.

Or say

- hey loser/special/big guy!

or

- whats going on malaka?

Don't get complicated on the opening txt man, none of this personality test or shit like that, wake up :roll:

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How about "stop thinking about me ;)". Snuggles' (from SLA) "stop smiling" one works well too.


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I agree the blank test is lame with no balls. Probably more annoying to a chick than anything. If a girl gives you her number I wouldnt spend to much time texting, more time talking. You can use the same approaches through texting, but be aware sometimes what you want to say doesnt come out the same through text... then your just a wierd dude. If you want to use the text as a bridge to a call and a call as a bridge to a night together, theres nothing wrong with that...

here is a fresh example I just tried with a girl ive been talking to, havent hung out with yet, used my online tactics to get her number, and agreed on drinks this week.

Me: "hey its me the fat bald man of your dreams, hopefully you dont embarass me by out drinking me, then i wont be able to talk to you anymore!"

Her: "oh yes the fat bald man of my dreams, we should def go out for a drink, ill try not to embarass you"

Me: "Monday wednesdays no good I have clients, other than that im free"

Her: " im pretty flexible, work is slow and i only take three classes right now, so any time after five is good for me"

Me: "Perfect, I got work to do now, but ill call you later, untill then think of a number between 1 and 9"

Her: " im intrigued?...9. bye bye!"


So with that I left her thinkin of me and what the hell she picked a number for, as well as excited to get a call... In a few hours ill call her. Set up a date. And thats how I feel text should be used. Dont overuse them, a chick will just think your a loser with no balls after awhile of texting.



I am recently single, 3 months now.. Getting back into the game. A pro football player which makes things easy, somewhat, But i have been developing my own theory called "the different guy", as well as online tactics, and such. A lot of the PUAs spend to much time and money sitting around talking about how to talk to girls. Remember every girl is different, the most important factor is your own self confidence, no fear of rejection, and paying attention to the girl. She will give you the keys to picking her up.

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you guys are def missing the point on the blank txt. I use it all the time and play like its a mistake. They get the message and ask whats up with the blank message. Then i say what are you talking about you dont have to make stuff up just to talk to me. So it really turns things around and gets the convo started.


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I like to screw with girls, thus making them think about me, without having to say anything. Literally, just send a blank text message. She'll be wondering why it was sent, what you are doing, what did you mean to say, etc. Nice, simple, and risk free, your not putting yourself out there to mess anything up because nothing is being said.

very nice i have actually used this one an its a good opener an does infact keep her thinking of you its like a mystery and it says you are somewhat intrested

its a 2 run hit lmao


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